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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 637541" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I thought carefully about what to say before I responded to you, Suzir.</p><p></p><p>If your son does all the things mine did, you are a more loving, better person than me to be able to live with the danger. I just can't so I guess that makes you a better person than I am.</p><p></p><p>Actually, I probably wouldn't like your difficult child. You wouldn't like mine either. I love him very much, but often don't like him.</p><p></p><p>Although I don't like it when my son calls me the c*word he hardly was kicked out for that. </p><p></p><p>I would not care for anyone, even a relative with cancer, if they physically abused me (or others who lived with me) or constantly verbally abused me. There is no excuse for abuse, in my opinion. Even illness is not an excuse. But maybe it's just my nature. So again you are a better, kinder, more compassionate person than I am. Since I am so inferior to you, I am no longer going to read what you have to say because it makes me feel like a bad person. And I didn't come here for that. So anything you respond with will not be read by me.</p><p></p><p>That's all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 637541, member: 1550"] I thought carefully about what to say before I responded to you, Suzir. If your son does all the things mine did, you are a more loving, better person than me to be able to live with the danger. I just can't so I guess that makes you a better person than I am. Actually, I probably wouldn't like your difficult child. You wouldn't like mine either. I love him very much, but often don't like him. Although I don't like it when my son calls me the c*word he hardly was kicked out for that. I would not care for anyone, even a relative with cancer, if they physically abused me (or others who lived with me) or constantly verbally abused me. There is no excuse for abuse, in my opinion. Even illness is not an excuse. But maybe it's just my nature. So again you are a better, kinder, more compassionate person than I am. Since I am so inferior to you, I am no longer going to read what you have to say because it makes me feel like a bad person. And I didn't come here for that. So anything you respond with will not be read by me. That's all. [/QUOTE]
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