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Do you know a good hit man??? GFGmom is taking me over the edge...again!
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 426903" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Make that complaint to SS for fraud AND figure out how much she got in disability while YOU had the kids. AND if she claimed them as dependents turn her in to the IRS. Trust me, the IRS is teh NASTIEST MEANEST FIGHTINGEST group to have against you. The kids lived with you and I am SURE that gfgmom claimed them, heck she may still be claiming one or more of them. The IRS has TEETH and even the THREAT of them may scare her off. But make that report anyway.</p><p></p><p>She has had long enough to mess him up. Do NOT let her undo all your hard work. Keep telling difficult child that she has messed him over time and again and teh ONLY way he will have anything like a good life is to keep her far away from his money.You also need to do what you must to protect him. in my opinion get a restraining order or else get conservatorship of his finances (or guardianship, diff states call it diff things). If he keeps letting her take all his money and leave him with nothing, and cannot remember or protect himself, then you CAN get either of those or him declared incompetent to handle his affairs and take them over so she cannot touch them. This has been going on as long as I have known you. She thinks he will get money, takes it all, leaves him broke and hungry and kicks him out to come to you to be rescued. Time and again you have tried to deal with her with-o reporting her crimes.</p><p></p><p>What she is doing is NOT a "family matter". It is CRIMINAL. So you need to file the complaints because he simply cannot. </p><p></p><p>Go get em!!!!!</p><p></p><p>I know where of I speak with the IRS. Had a relative with a fifth husband who was in trouble and even years after they split they kept trying to come after her - the debt was incurred many years before she met him or married him but they got wind that he had a joint savings account and a tiny CD with her and came after them. I also have a bro who didn't pay any taxes for over seven years. That was during the time that my parents thought I was out to ruin his life because his wife was playing head games. If I had REALLY wanted to ruin him I would have called the IRS - and I told them so. You should have seen my family turn pale at THAT thought.</p><p></p><p>She could actually go to JAIL for what she has done with his social security and by claiming him on her taxes when he didn't live with her. I also knew a LOT of accountants who went to work for the IRS. They ALL love to go after situations like this where a parent has taken gross advantage of a disabled child and another relative who actually took care of the child. </p><p></p><p>I am very sorry that you have to keep fighting her. It is time to do it big and final and get her out of his financial life for the long term. I have faith that you can do it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 426903, member: 1233"] Make that complaint to SS for fraud AND figure out how much she got in disability while YOU had the kids. AND if she claimed them as dependents turn her in to the IRS. Trust me, the IRS is teh NASTIEST MEANEST FIGHTINGEST group to have against you. The kids lived with you and I am SURE that gfgmom claimed them, heck she may still be claiming one or more of them. The IRS has TEETH and even the THREAT of them may scare her off. But make that report anyway. She has had long enough to mess him up. Do NOT let her undo all your hard work. Keep telling difficult child that she has messed him over time and again and teh ONLY way he will have anything like a good life is to keep her far away from his money.You also need to do what you must to protect him. in my opinion get a restraining order or else get conservatorship of his finances (or guardianship, diff states call it diff things). If he keeps letting her take all his money and leave him with nothing, and cannot remember or protect himself, then you CAN get either of those or him declared incompetent to handle his affairs and take them over so she cannot touch them. This has been going on as long as I have known you. She thinks he will get money, takes it all, leaves him broke and hungry and kicks him out to come to you to be rescued. Time and again you have tried to deal with her with-o reporting her crimes. What she is doing is NOT a "family matter". It is CRIMINAL. So you need to file the complaints because he simply cannot. Go get em!!!!! I know where of I speak with the IRS. Had a relative with a fifth husband who was in trouble and even years after they split they kept trying to come after her - the debt was incurred many years before she met him or married him but they got wind that he had a joint savings account and a tiny CD with her and came after them. I also have a bro who didn't pay any taxes for over seven years. That was during the time that my parents thought I was out to ruin his life because his wife was playing head games. If I had REALLY wanted to ruin him I would have called the IRS - and I told them so. You should have seen my family turn pale at THAT thought. She could actually go to JAIL for what she has done with his social security and by claiming him on her taxes when he didn't live with her. I also knew a LOT of accountants who went to work for the IRS. They ALL love to go after situations like this where a parent has taken gross advantage of a disabled child and another relative who actually took care of the child. I am very sorry that you have to keep fighting her. It is time to do it big and final and get her out of his financial life for the long term. I have faith that you can do it. [/QUOTE]
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