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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 562031" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>She could be being bullied of course but this is a long standing pattern and I think I remember the bully theory was being checked into but that didn't seem to be it????</p><p></p><p>Anyway I agree you need to document your efforts and she needs consistency so yeah I think you're doing right by her.</p><p></p><p>But more importantly I think are your efforts to work on figuring things out and to resolve things through therapy and checking out side effects of the medications like you're already doing.</p><p></p><p>Do you think it would make sense to take the option to walk in alone out of the equation for now? What if an approach to up the success rate started---like......they just plan to meet the car daily till things go smoothly for a month or so....(like 90%of the time for example ) ....then they walk out and wave to her to her from half way so she comes out and walks the rest of the way for another month or so then they move further and further away. Take you and all the encouragement or arguing completely out of it. Just say by, have a great day.....(or.whatever ) and sit there waiting. </p><p></p><p>I.think sometimes "errorless learning " works better and is a more positive method, because there is a low opportunity for things to go wrong and.people are not coming out.and.giving attention on the days she is in a negative mode. Eventually (hopefully ) her brain has worked through the anxiety and neg pattern she is in.</p><p></p><p>May.sound stupid but its just an idea, smile!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 562031, member: 12886"] She could be being bullied of course but this is a long standing pattern and I think I remember the bully theory was being checked into but that didn't seem to be it???? Anyway I agree you need to document your efforts and she needs consistency so yeah I think you're doing right by her. But more importantly I think are your efforts to work on figuring things out and to resolve things through therapy and checking out side effects of the medications like you're already doing. Do you think it would make sense to take the option to walk in alone out of the equation for now? What if an approach to up the success rate started---like......they just plan to meet the car daily till things go smoothly for a month or so....(like 90%of the time for example ) ....then they walk out and wave to her to her from half way so she comes out and walks the rest of the way for another month or so then they move further and further away. Take you and all the encouragement or arguing completely out of it. Just say by, have a great day.....(or.whatever ) and sit there waiting. I.think sometimes "errorless learning " works better and is a more positive method, because there is a low opportunity for things to go wrong and.people are not coming out.and.giving attention on the days she is in a negative mode. Eventually (hopefully ) her brain has worked through the anxiety and neg pattern she is in. May.sound stupid but its just an idea, smile! [/QUOTE]
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