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does anyone else just lose it with-difficult child?
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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 17550" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p>in my humble opinion a ' working with' , problem solving approach helps you stay out of a confrontational mode. When your kid is pushing your buttons , see the book/site <a href="http://www.bonnieharris.com/" target="_blank">http://www.bonnieharris.com/</a> I usually see it as a poor coping skill, kid has a problem , not me. The best way to deal with this is to avoid these situations by trying to create a relaxed atmosphere in the home, plenty of dance and music, dialog on general stuff etc . When we lose it gives us an idea how easy it is for our kids to lose. Really we and kids move forward when we feel good about ourselves , so we have to quickly look for the reset button and move on</p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 17550, member: 10"] Hi, in my humble opinion a ' working with' , problem solving approach helps you stay out of a confrontational mode. When your kid is pushing your buttons , see the book/site [url]http://www.bonnieharris.com/[/url] I usually see it as a poor coping skill, kid has a problem , not me. The best way to deal with this is to avoid these situations by trying to create a relaxed atmosphere in the home, plenty of dance and music, dialog on general stuff etc . When we lose it gives us an idea how easy it is for our kids to lose. Really we and kids move forward when we feel good about ourselves , so we have to quickly look for the reset button and move on Allan [/QUOTE]
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