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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 383220" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>ok sleep didnt' work. my wheels were spinning way too much and self soathing tonite isnt' working.</p><p> </p><p>i've decided i'm giving him till tmrw afternoon to see if she completes. the deal is complete all meals, so if she tanks on lunch than she knows no mom on sunday. if she doesn't pull it off tmrw plus a no go today guess what your approach is bs. so i'm going up in a.m. and leaving him a note stating that, well nicely though.</p><p> </p><p>than i will go up sunday against them allowing me to see her.</p><p> </p><p>i'm giong to say ok you tried 3 diff approaches your way and got nowhere really quick so now here's what i think we should do.</p><p> </p><p>1. give her a roomate, she is lonely and we now know she is sleeping. companionship is huge for difficult child.</p><p>2. back to liquids starting sunday. liquids for breakfast, and lunch p.m. will be dinner.</p><p>3. allotted timeframe for completion will be 3 hours. not 1 hr and a half. </p><p>4. labtop will be given back. she will be allowed one call her day to me.</p><p>5. on day 3 of her completing that cycle than d</p><p> </p><p>ay 4 we go 2 solid meals and leave breakfast liquid.</p><p>she attends all pyscho therapy groups. i do not care if lunch has to sit and she has to rejoin it later.</p><p> </p><p>bar's too high now my mom guts screaming at me loudly. husband says trust doctors but what does he know. i've trusted docs for eleven years look at mess we are in now.</p><p>my bet is she will not complete any tmrw. she will totally shut down and do nothing. my kids' overall being is slow to warm up maybe this approach works with other kids yet not my kid my bet is. </p><p>i'm cutting ex h's visits back right now and telling difficult child it is due to work. he wants to mess with me let him go to court.</p><p> </p><p>if she was "milking" it as dr. said she would complete dinner's immediately to have full visiting hours. she isn't milking it. she is afraid to eat, is it a control issue also possibly. yet small made good point we are now at 2 mos. mark now of no solid food. brain isnt' functioning right also with all those medications. if no improvement with lithium very soon. they can flush it out and go with zyprexa.</p><p> </p><p>ok i will be reading this again tmrw what i just wrote becaues i'm half asleep right now. i'm typing it up on computer downstairs in a.m. and dropping with-dr.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 383220, member: 4514"] ok sleep didnt' work. my wheels were spinning way too much and self soathing tonite isnt' working. i've decided i'm giving him till tmrw afternoon to see if she completes. the deal is complete all meals, so if she tanks on lunch than she knows no mom on sunday. if she doesn't pull it off tmrw plus a no go today guess what your approach is bs. so i'm going up in a.m. and leaving him a note stating that, well nicely though. than i will go up sunday against them allowing me to see her. i'm giong to say ok you tried 3 diff approaches your way and got nowhere really quick so now here's what i think we should do. 1. give her a roomate, she is lonely and we now know she is sleeping. companionship is huge for difficult child. 2. back to liquids starting sunday. liquids for breakfast, and lunch p.m. will be dinner. 3. allotted timeframe for completion will be 3 hours. not 1 hr and a half. 4. labtop will be given back. she will be allowed one call her day to me. 5. on day 3 of her completing that cycle than d ay 4 we go 2 solid meals and leave breakfast liquid. she attends all pyscho therapy groups. i do not care if lunch has to sit and she has to rejoin it later. bar's too high now my mom guts screaming at me loudly. husband says trust doctors but what does he know. i've trusted docs for eleven years look at mess we are in now. my bet is she will not complete any tmrw. she will totally shut down and do nothing. my kids' overall being is slow to warm up maybe this approach works with other kids yet not my kid my bet is. i'm cutting ex h's visits back right now and telling difficult child it is due to work. he wants to mess with me let him go to court. if she was "milking" it as dr. said she would complete dinner's immediately to have full visiting hours. she isn't milking it. she is afraid to eat, is it a control issue also possibly. yet small made good point we are now at 2 mos. mark now of no solid food. brain isnt' functioning right also with all those medications. if no improvement with lithium very soon. they can flush it out and go with zyprexa. ok i will be reading this again tmrw what i just wrote becaues i'm half asleep right now. i'm typing it up on computer downstairs in a.m. and dropping with-dr. [/QUOTE]
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