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Don't even like my own kid
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<blockquote data-quote="troubled" data-source="post: 456385"><p>I can sooo relate to your admission. In fact, I could have written it myself, word for word. I have even gone so far as to call difficult child my enemy because that's how she sees me and tells others she despises me and other hateful and hurtful things she feels towards me for not doing her bidding and being at her disposal. My mom and sister have to keep reminding me that I did everything I could possibly do to help my daughter onto the right path as I guess you also have done. As a divorced mom of one child (difficult child) I didn't even work or date for 7 years so that difficult child would have a fighting chance at a normal life with a devoted and caring mother. Even after I began dating, difficult child always came first. She lacked for nothing. difficult child's problems were/are all her doing and the result of her own poor choices. Had she listened to me or followed in my footsteps, or learned to accept help from therapists, she would be on top of the world right now, looking at a bright future and she would have all the support and financial help she could ever ask for. But noooooooo, these difficult children have a different plan. So be it. Not your fault and there's nothing you can do to change it. You can only change you and your reaction to what your difficult child does and says. Don't believe parents who only have PCs, they know nothing about it. They can't even imagine.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="troubled, post: 456385"] I can sooo relate to your admission. In fact, I could have written it myself, word for word. I have even gone so far as to call difficult child my enemy because that's how she sees me and tells others she despises me and other hateful and hurtful things she feels towards me for not doing her bidding and being at her disposal. My mom and sister have to keep reminding me that I did everything I could possibly do to help my daughter onto the right path as I guess you also have done. As a divorced mom of one child (difficult child) I didn't even work or date for 7 years so that difficult child would have a fighting chance at a normal life with a devoted and caring mother. Even after I began dating, difficult child always came first. She lacked for nothing. difficult child's problems were/are all her doing and the result of her own poor choices. Had she listened to me or followed in my footsteps, or learned to accept help from therapists, she would be on top of the world right now, looking at a bright future and she would have all the support and financial help she could ever ask for. But noooooooo, these difficult children have a different plan. So be it. Not your fault and there's nothing you can do to change it. You can only change you and your reaction to what your difficult child does and says. Don't believe parents who only have PCs, they know nothing about it. They can't even imagine. [/QUOTE]
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