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<blockquote data-quote="topsyturvy" data-source="post: 199571" data-attributes="member: 6005"><p>Thank you everyone for your replies, it doesn't make me feel so clueless or feel like a failure. He has been seen by several people, all that everyone has asked about. His early development was right on track if not ahead of. He socialization is pretty good, he tends to want to be too touchy feely for a lot of kids, his anger does get the best of him and he says things that are totally inappropriate. He does get angry when things don't go his way and he puts the blame on others. For example he tried to blame me yesterday because he didn't put his homework back in his folder, in which I told him that's not my responsibility he knows that he has to put his homework in his homework folder. He turned on the water works last night when he had to sit down and correct a lot of assingments that the teacher sent hom for him to redo. He knew how to do the assingments but he was choosing to just slop down an answer. He has also learned who to manipulate and who to try and put the blame on. He does not seem spacy in fact he pays close attention to things, well the things that will benefit him anyway.</p><p> </p><p>What frustrates me the most is that he knows how to do his work, he knows what he is doing but we play this game everyday. Much of the time me and husband end up fighting cause husband likes to take the side of DS until he figures out that Ds knows what he is doing or when he lies to him. Then we have the issue of my mother in law and how she baby's him and puts the blame on me and his teachers. It's so frustrating that I have migraines everyday.</p><p> </p><p>I have my daughter who has a learning disability which affects everything that she does so it's not like I don't know how to work with different things and I know how to handle things. But she doesn't play the whole poor little me game, she knows that she just has to work harder then everyone else and she feels prouder of herself when she achieves what we expect and we expect the same things out of both of them when it comes to academia.</p><p> </p><p>UGH it's just so darn frustrating.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="topsyturvy, post: 199571, member: 6005"] Thank you everyone for your replies, it doesn't make me feel so clueless or feel like a failure. He has been seen by several people, all that everyone has asked about. His early development was right on track if not ahead of. He socialization is pretty good, he tends to want to be too touchy feely for a lot of kids, his anger does get the best of him and he says things that are totally inappropriate. He does get angry when things don't go his way and he puts the blame on others. For example he tried to blame me yesterday because he didn't put his homework back in his folder, in which I told him that's not my responsibility he knows that he has to put his homework in his homework folder. He turned on the water works last night when he had to sit down and correct a lot of assingments that the teacher sent hom for him to redo. He knew how to do the assingments but he was choosing to just slop down an answer. He has also learned who to manipulate and who to try and put the blame on. He does not seem spacy in fact he pays close attention to things, well the things that will benefit him anyway. What frustrates me the most is that he knows how to do his work, he knows what he is doing but we play this game everyday. Much of the time me and husband end up fighting cause husband likes to take the side of DS until he figures out that Ds knows what he is doing or when he lies to him. Then we have the issue of my mother in law and how she baby's him and puts the blame on me and his teachers. It's so frustrating that I have migraines everyday. I have my daughter who has a learning disability which affects everything that she does so it's not like I don't know how to work with different things and I know how to handle things. But she doesn't play the whole poor little me game, she knows that she just has to work harder then everyone else and she feels prouder of herself when she achieves what we expect and we expect the same things out of both of them when it comes to academia. UGH it's just so darn frustrating. [/QUOTE]
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