Haven't been on this board for over a year. Nothing much have changed. our 13 years old has gotten so big in size and has been always trying to resolve issues by physical aggression. And dad is losing it and they got into a fight this afternoon. its not right for an adult to lose it with his teenage son but I really doubt too many people could handle the daily commotions caused by the teenager. our 13 years old has gotten physical with our 7 years old son lately, destructive almost daily. Anything doesn't go his way, he would want to resolve it physically. we were going out as a family today and he was throwing temper tantrum. Smashed and throw stuff around and slammed door, also came at me throwing stuff at me. so the outing was cancelled. He doesn't stop, he raised up the tv volume so high that the house vibrated. We asked him to bring down the volume and he smashed the remote control into pieces, dad lost it and charged at him. I managed to break them up but it has caused so much tension in the house.Dad walked out of the house. I don't like it that dad always walks out whenever he couldn't handle the son. But then again I rather he goes cool his head off. Son was just discharged from phosh from aggression. I don't know what else I can do.