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Dormant Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) Reactive Attachment Disorder... encouragement welcome!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 318716"><p>I am so sorry; I have NOT taken this journey...it sounds horrible.</p><p></p><p>My experience...hearing from many professionals on the subject, is almost ALL adopted children suffer from attachment and abandonment issues.</p><p></p><p>My own personal thoughts, having a bio child and an adopted child, is that it <em>might </em>be worse in homes where there is an adopted child and a bio child.</p><p></p><p>Totally agree that your friends who do not trust you are not really your friends. AT the very least, they should remain neutral in all of this. </p><p></p><p>Sadly, we hear stories all the time about unexpected and surprising abuses in the home, so her accusations should be taken seriously by you. But once you have honestly done this, with the help of a trained therapist, you are free to move forward and shake this off.</p><p></p><p>Google and listen to the lyrics of the song Does Anybody Hear Her by Casting Crowns. Sometimes adopted children are convinced that they are worthless and they can't find love from their adopting parents. It's bizarre, because they confuse real unfortunate situations with fabricated ones. Then they can't find comfort within themselves or anywhere else. Like you have noticed, judgment is all around us and ironically the best place for that comfort really starts from a loving God and loving parents.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 318716"] I am so sorry; I have NOT taken this journey...it sounds horrible. My experience...hearing from many professionals on the subject, is almost ALL adopted children suffer from attachment and abandonment issues. My own personal thoughts, having a bio child and an adopted child, is that it [I]might [/I]be worse in homes where there is an adopted child and a bio child. Totally agree that your friends who do not trust you are not really your friends. AT the very least, they should remain neutral in all of this. Sadly, we hear stories all the time about unexpected and surprising abuses in the home, so her accusations should be taken seriously by you. But once you have honestly done this, with the help of a trained therapist, you are free to move forward and shake this off. Google and listen to the lyrics of the song Does Anybody Hear Her by Casting Crowns. Sometimes adopted children are convinced that they are worthless and they can't find love from their adopting parents. It's bizarre, because they confuse real unfortunate situations with fabricated ones. Then they can't find comfort within themselves or anywhere else. Like you have noticed, judgment is all around us and ironically the best place for that comfort really starts from a loving God and loving parents. [/QUOTE]
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