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<blockquote data-quote="Tania_port" data-source="post: 266000" data-attributes="member: 7201"><p>Thank you! My husband went and got 2 of your books at barnes and noble last night. I starting reading a little about the ADHD kid in one of your books. Thats one thing that they said my sons might have. I see that he could possible have some other things going on also. For years now hes been lining things up. And its every day he does it. Its like a compulsion to line things up. I also noticed with a few of my kids the sensitivity to loud noises. He use to cover his ears when i would turn his bath water. Now he doesnt do it with the bath water but he complains when the pans rattle or something like that. And my 3 year old does the same thing. My 7 year old i noticed also doing that. One thing i also noticed is my 5 year old and my 7 year old wont eat foods that are the textures are weird to them. They wont eat hamburger meat for 1. I know there are other i just cant think right now. I found out last night when i went to drop my son off at our sitters that he pushed a 2 year old so hard that the kids head bounced off the wall very hard. I think my son might be able to control his anger also. When my husband gets home from work my son acts so much better. And thats because hes got spanked from my husband. The problem with me spanking is ive had my son laugh at me after i spanked him. So it doesnt work for me. Our pediatrician is suppose to be getting on the ball to get us some medications. Our behavior therapist gave us a letter telling the pediatrician that our son is a danger to kids and animals. So im waiting as patiently as possible. Hopefully they will give him something that will help with the aggressiveness. He kicked me yesterday. And i dont think my husbands going to allow my son to stay here if he hurts my 3 year old or our animals. It just seems like if my husband leaves the house my child loves it because he can walk all over us. And i dont let him. He gets lots of punishment from me but you would think that i let him run crazy by the way he acts. I was watching my son look at my 3 year old yesterday and she was playing and having a good time by herself. Well he was stareing her down. Like he hated her. I dont think he wants her to have fun. The look he was giving her i cant even put in words because it was a scary look. My daughter isnt a bad kid either. She helps him do lots of stuff. Like if he says i cant do this she will run over to him and help him. I dont think he even likes her or any of us at all. I wonder why he puts himself so high like hes an adult. Like he should be the boss of all things.And if hes not its hell to pay for all around. I dont think he cares for women much at all. Seems like men do a better job with controling him a little bit. I hope that these book will help. I have read some reviews on a few different books on amazon and yours seem like it actually give us witts end parents some hope for some success. My child is way out of control and love isnt going to fix it. I know now that ive gotta learn to be hard to control my son. Even though hes got some medical issues he has control because if he didnt he wouldnt act better when my husband comes home. He has choices to make and he makes them. Hes going to see the school pathologist on thursday and they are going to run some tests on him. Im unsure what she can do but anything is better then nothing. Thank you for writing books. Some days i loose all hope of anything working and im hopeing with the medications and our behavior therapist plus your books we can find something that works. Im willing to try about anything at this point. My husband tells me that he cant do this much longer with my son,its his step son, so im guessing he means it. Thanks for your time. I really appreciate the help.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tania_port, post: 266000, member: 7201"] Thank you! My husband went and got 2 of your books at barnes and noble last night. I starting reading a little about the ADHD kid in one of your books. Thats one thing that they said my sons might have. I see that he could possible have some other things going on also. For years now hes been lining things up. And its every day he does it. Its like a compulsion to line things up. I also noticed with a few of my kids the sensitivity to loud noises. He use to cover his ears when i would turn his bath water. Now he doesnt do it with the bath water but he complains when the pans rattle or something like that. And my 3 year old does the same thing. My 7 year old i noticed also doing that. One thing i also noticed is my 5 year old and my 7 year old wont eat foods that are the textures are weird to them. They wont eat hamburger meat for 1. I know there are other i just cant think right now. I found out last night when i went to drop my son off at our sitters that he pushed a 2 year old so hard that the kids head bounced off the wall very hard. I think my son might be able to control his anger also. When my husband gets home from work my son acts so much better. And thats because hes got spanked from my husband. The problem with me spanking is ive had my son laugh at me after i spanked him. So it doesnt work for me. Our pediatrician is suppose to be getting on the ball to get us some medications. Our behavior therapist gave us a letter telling the pediatrician that our son is a danger to kids and animals. So im waiting as patiently as possible. Hopefully they will give him something that will help with the aggressiveness. He kicked me yesterday. And i dont think my husbands going to allow my son to stay here if he hurts my 3 year old or our animals. It just seems like if my husband leaves the house my child loves it because he can walk all over us. And i dont let him. He gets lots of punishment from me but you would think that i let him run crazy by the way he acts. I was watching my son look at my 3 year old yesterday and she was playing and having a good time by herself. Well he was stareing her down. Like he hated her. I dont think he wants her to have fun. The look he was giving her i cant even put in words because it was a scary look. My daughter isnt a bad kid either. She helps him do lots of stuff. Like if he says i cant do this she will run over to him and help him. I dont think he even likes her or any of us at all. I wonder why he puts himself so high like hes an adult. Like he should be the boss of all things.And if hes not its hell to pay for all around. I dont think he cares for women much at all. Seems like men do a better job with controling him a little bit. I hope that these book will help. I have read some reviews on a few different books on amazon and yours seem like it actually give us witts end parents some hope for some success. My child is way out of control and love isnt going to fix it. I know now that ive gotta learn to be hard to control my son. Even though hes got some medical issues he has control because if he didnt he wouldnt act better when my husband comes home. He has choices to make and he makes them. Hes going to see the school pathologist on thursday and they are going to run some tests on him. Im unsure what she can do but anything is better then nothing. Thank you for writing books. Some days i loose all hope of anything working and im hopeing with the medications and our behavior therapist plus your books we can find something that works. Im willing to try about anything at this point. My husband tells me that he cant do this much longer with my son,its his step son, so im guessing he means it. Thanks for your time. I really appreciate the help. [/QUOTE]
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