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<blockquote data-quote="happymomof2" data-source="post: 155402" data-attributes="member: 4270"><p>I did keep him home. We have an appointment. Monday at 10 with a guidance counselor that is at the high school that has known him since 4th grade. She has went to bat for us before and I trust her advice. We are going to tell her what is going on and see how she suggest we handle it. </p><p></p><p>I did this before in Jr. High because there was this one kid that just would not leave difficult child alone. I told the teacher anyone, doesn't have to be a difficult child, gets to the point where is enough is enough. And again it's one kid that is pushing his buttons daily. He only has to deal with him one period. </p><p></p><p>Sons side is that there are 2 aides, the teacher and another school employee he said it was the librarian that come in to that class. Well teacher gives the button pushing kid control over the class, while the adults have social hour. It's kinda like a shop class and the kid in charge won't let the other kids touch anything. </p><p></p><p>I realize our difficult child's can exaggerate some, but I trust my difficult child that things are not going like they should in that class. It's not like he comes home everyday telling me stories like this. In fact I haven't had to deal with this situation all year. </p><p></p><p>The reason I want to talk to the guidance counselor is I want to know the best way to handle it. I don't want the other kids to know mom went to the school for him about this kid. My son would never live that down. I am not worried about this kid hurting my son, I am worried that my son will beat the **** out of him and get in trouble. </p><p></p><p>We have 14 more days of school left. We already had his IEP and he will be out next year - well out of self contained anyway. If something isn't done about this one kid my difficult child could very well not get out. I know it's in his hands he has control but again he can only take so much.</p><p></p><p>I keep telling him over and over. Next year he will be in 6 or 7 different classes and he is going to run into other kids that push his buttons and he has got to maintain control over himself. </p><p></p><p>Wish us luck!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="happymomof2, post: 155402, member: 4270"] I did keep him home. We have an appointment. Monday at 10 with a guidance counselor that is at the high school that has known him since 4th grade. She has went to bat for us before and I trust her advice. We are going to tell her what is going on and see how she suggest we handle it. I did this before in Jr. High because there was this one kid that just would not leave difficult child alone. I told the teacher anyone, doesn't have to be a difficult child, gets to the point where is enough is enough. And again it's one kid that is pushing his buttons daily. He only has to deal with him one period. Sons side is that there are 2 aides, the teacher and another school employee he said it was the librarian that come in to that class. Well teacher gives the button pushing kid control over the class, while the adults have social hour. It's kinda like a shop class and the kid in charge won't let the other kids touch anything. I realize our difficult child's can exaggerate some, but I trust my difficult child that things are not going like they should in that class. It's not like he comes home everyday telling me stories like this. In fact I haven't had to deal with this situation all year. The reason I want to talk to the guidance counselor is I want to know the best way to handle it. I don't want the other kids to know mom went to the school for him about this kid. My son would never live that down. I am not worried about this kid hurting my son, I am worried that my son will beat the **** out of him and get in trouble. We have 14 more days of school left. We already had his IEP and he will be out next year - well out of self contained anyway. If something isn't done about this one kid my difficult child could very well not get out. I know it's in his hands he has control but again he can only take so much. I keep telling him over and over. Next year he will be in 6 or 7 different classes and he is going to run into other kids that push his buttons and he has got to maintain control over himself. Wish us luck!! [/QUOTE]
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