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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 584812" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Will that be in writing? Once he is there would husband let him come back? You say he will change and desperately wants him but he is ignoring his autism and his Special Education plan and his need for medications, at least at school. </p><p>I'm sure that's a worry for you because in the past you've said he's not fit to raise an animal. You were mad then about what his wife was saying and his behaviors. But, right now you don't have many options for getting better. It sounds like you'd rather keep both but just can't do, what else to do. </p><p></p><p>I think if you call the school and doctors they plan to use, you will have a better chance of getting him back if needed. Most importantly, for easy child's sake....he needs your voice in his care. I agree denying his autism and not prepping the school (call and talk to the teacher yourself, fill them in) is risky for easy child. I get why you were upset that husband didn't set up the school stuff well. but you're better at it for now. And it's not about husband. You got easy child all of his services. You did the awesome job, which is why easy child is doing so well. I think the reality is, you will do better, at least at first, setting things up. And easy child needs that from you. If you can, facilitate a phone conference from his old teacher to the new sp ed teacher. </p><p></p><p>Id suggest making sure you put in writing to the new school that you want copies of every note sent home. Even about picture day and school activities. When I've worked in schools that has made it so there was no way a parent could not say the other did not communicate with the other. You can schedule your own teacher conferences if being with husband wouldn't work out. And you can always be there by phone.</p><p></p><p>You are doing your best, we are just sharing ideas. You've brought easy child to where he is and you know it's going to be hard. </p><p></p><p>Keep moving forward, you can do this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 584812, member: 12886"] Will that be in writing? Once he is there would husband let him come back? You say he will change and desperately wants him but he is ignoring his autism and his Special Education plan and his need for medications, at least at school. I'm sure that's a worry for you because in the past you've said he's not fit to raise an animal. You were mad then about what his wife was saying and his behaviors. But, right now you don't have many options for getting better. It sounds like you'd rather keep both but just can't do, what else to do. I think if you call the school and doctors they plan to use, you will have a better chance of getting him back if needed. Most importantly, for easy child's sake....he needs your voice in his care. I agree denying his autism and not prepping the school (call and talk to the teacher yourself, fill them in) is risky for easy child. I get why you were upset that husband didn't set up the school stuff well. but you're better at it for now. And it's not about husband. You got easy child all of his services. You did the awesome job, which is why easy child is doing so well. I think the reality is, you will do better, at least at first, setting things up. And easy child needs that from you. If you can, facilitate a phone conference from his old teacher to the new sp ed teacher. Id suggest making sure you put in writing to the new school that you want copies of every note sent home. Even about picture day and school activities. When I've worked in schools that has made it so there was no way a parent could not say the other did not communicate with the other. You can schedule your own teacher conferences if being with husband wouldn't work out. And you can always be there by phone. You are doing your best, we are just sharing ideas. You've brought easy child to where he is and you know it's going to be hard. Keep moving forward, you can do this. [/QUOTE]
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