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<blockquote data-quote="flutterbee" data-source="post: 42643"><p>I'm not having kids in my next life.</p><p></p><p>easy child didn't want to stay the weekend at my mom's and came home this afternoon. Tonight he started in. He doesn't think difficult child is depressed. He doesn't understand why I can't go to work. If only everyone would listen to him cause he's always right (yes, he said that out loud). He said that my allergic reaction isn't that bad. I guess that when I went to the ER with it and my blood pressure was higher than it was when I was having a heart attack is nothing to worry about. </p><p></p><p>I tried to explain things, yet again. I've tried to talk about what happened and what it meant and what was going on. I explained that they had put me on so many medications at once and it took time to figure out which I was reacting to (and honestly, we're still not sure cause it's day 3 of the steroids and no improvement). He told me that he didn't want to hear it, that it makes him crazy and annoys him. He told me that he already knows that stuff, but he still doesn't think it's an excuse for being sick. He said that I've been sick for a long time and he's tired of it and thinks it's just an excuse. Well, yes, I have been sick for a long time. I had two blockages in my arteries at 99%, one at 50% and one at 40%, so I've felt absolutely horrible for several months and the doctors never even considered heart issues. They said I had chronic fatigue. We now know that I don't. But, somehow, according to easy child I've brought this on myself.</p><p></p><p>Yet, during the months preceding the heart attack when I was absolutely wiped out all the time, I still worked and cooked and cleaned and did laundry and ran him wherever he needed or wanted to go and was parenting him and difficult child. I don't get breaks. I don't get every other weekend off. My mother has taken difficult child for the night maybe three times in the last year. Usually they have friends stay over here rather than them staying with their friends so it was quite common to have 5 or 6 teenage boys or girls in the house at a time. </p><p></p><p>I didn't think I raised him to be like this. :crying:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterbee, post: 42643"] I'm not having kids in my next life. easy child didn't want to stay the weekend at my mom's and came home this afternoon. Tonight he started in. He doesn't think difficult child is depressed. He doesn't understand why I can't go to work. If only everyone would listen to him cause he's always right (yes, he said that out loud). He said that my allergic reaction isn't that bad. I guess that when I went to the ER with it and my blood pressure was higher than it was when I was having a heart attack is nothing to worry about. I tried to explain things, yet again. I've tried to talk about what happened and what it meant and what was going on. I explained that they had put me on so many medications at once and it took time to figure out which I was reacting to (and honestly, we're still not sure cause it's day 3 of the steroids and no improvement). He told me that he didn't want to hear it, that it makes him crazy and annoys him. He told me that he already knows that stuff, but he still doesn't think it's an excuse for being sick. He said that I've been sick for a long time and he's tired of it and thinks it's just an excuse. Well, yes, I have been sick for a long time. I had two blockages in my arteries at 99%, one at 50% and one at 40%, so I've felt absolutely horrible for several months and the doctors never even considered heart issues. They said I had chronic fatigue. We now know that I don't. But, somehow, according to easy child I've brought this on myself. Yet, during the months preceding the heart attack when I was absolutely wiped out all the time, I still worked and cooked and cleaned and did laundry and ran him wherever he needed or wanted to go and was parenting him and difficult child. I don't get breaks. I don't get every other weekend off. My mother has taken difficult child for the night maybe three times in the last year. Usually they have friends stay over here rather than them staying with their friends so it was quite common to have 5 or 6 teenage boys or girls in the house at a time. I didn't think I raised him to be like this. [img]:crying:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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