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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 497162" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Sorry about that. If easy child is safe and close enough to visit, maybe this could help a little for now (not fair, but??)...because it is one less variable for you to negotiate around. </p><p></p><p>You guys did great sticking with that. Not as much a consequence, but she needs to get on a healthy schedule and so it is like giving medicine they dont like the taste of...right?</p><p></p><p>Do you have zoned circut breakers in your home? Can you just cut off the electric to her areas of the house? Just curious. May just push her tantrum closer to you. </p><p></p><p>Have you now made it clear that you will tolerate NO abuse and that includes verbal so you will call the police and press charges next time she does all of that? She seems to know what is what but has some total rage issues which just have to include an underlying problem. She seems like she has developed some amazing manipulation skills. But that does not mean it is where it all started. </p><p></p><p>I think a second opinion, a full neuropsychologist evaluation is really in order.... I agree with Confuz. that there is such a history and even if there were spells of relative calm, puberty could be triggering a whole new level of issues. To take that full history along with the current problems and bring it to someone outside to help puzzle thru this could really help you. </p><p></p><p>Have you done that before? I know..... ONE more thing! sorry... you know I care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 497162, member: 12886"] Sorry about that. If easy child is safe and close enough to visit, maybe this could help a little for now (not fair, but??)...because it is one less variable for you to negotiate around. You guys did great sticking with that. Not as much a consequence, but she needs to get on a healthy schedule and so it is like giving medicine they dont like the taste of...right? Do you have zoned circut breakers in your home? Can you just cut off the electric to her areas of the house? Just curious. May just push her tantrum closer to you. Have you now made it clear that you will tolerate NO abuse and that includes verbal so you will call the police and press charges next time she does all of that? She seems to know what is what but has some total rage issues which just have to include an underlying problem. She seems like she has developed some amazing manipulation skills. But that does not mean it is where it all started. I think a second opinion, a full neuropsychologist evaluation is really in order.... I agree with Confuz. that there is such a history and even if there were spells of relative calm, puberty could be triggering a whole new level of issues. To take that full history along with the current problems and bring it to someone outside to help puzzle thru this could really help you. Have you done that before? I know..... ONE more thing! sorry... you know I care. [/QUOTE]
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