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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 497213" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>OK, this is going to sound mean.... and I am mean along with you if you do it because I have thought of it... (for me I know it wont solve any long term problems, but for an ace in the hole kind of thing to stop a behavior if it slips by all of my -ahem- extraordinary parenting measures, lol....</p><p></p><p>I told Q I was going to get papers to have signed so if he hurts me again I can make going to the police faster. As much as I said I knew I owuld be in trouble if I went down that road, I did have to use it recently and it did stop the stomping, tipping chairs, pounding on me, charging me and faking aggression etc. Of course I tried other things first, and before...but he came in the house loaded for bear so not much time to be proactive.</p><p></p><p>So, what if blank papers were to show up on a table that she happened to see... papers from a police department given to people who are filling out a complaint on someone. What if she saw that sitting there to know you are willing to go there and as a follow up to your police call...</p><p></p><p>A little manipulative I know, but I would not say to do it if you didn't really mean it. Or you can even admit you just were curious how to fill out a complaint if you needed it. I would not do such a thing for someone who randomly blows up..could be a trigger. But if she is really just blowing up over losing preferred things and avoiding non preferred things, then it might just reinforce the calling the police thing. </p><p></p><p>I know it is not very Ross Greene, but I am an eclectic kind of intervention person.... I dont just use one thing for all issues.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 497213, member: 12886"] OK, this is going to sound mean.... and I am mean along with you if you do it because I have thought of it... (for me I know it wont solve any long term problems, but for an ace in the hole kind of thing to stop a behavior if it slips by all of my -ahem- extraordinary parenting measures, lol.... I told Q I was going to get papers to have signed so if he hurts me again I can make going to the police faster. As much as I said I knew I owuld be in trouble if I went down that road, I did have to use it recently and it did stop the stomping, tipping chairs, pounding on me, charging me and faking aggression etc. Of course I tried other things first, and before...but he came in the house loaded for bear so not much time to be proactive. So, what if blank papers were to show up on a table that she happened to see... papers from a police department given to people who are filling out a complaint on someone. What if she saw that sitting there to know you are willing to go there and as a follow up to your police call... A little manipulative I know, but I would not say to do it if you didn't really mean it. Or you can even admit you just were curious how to fill out a complaint if you needed it. I would not do such a thing for someone who randomly blows up..could be a trigger. But if she is really just blowing up over losing preferred things and avoiding non preferred things, then it might just reinforce the calling the police thing. I know it is not very Ross Greene, but I am an eclectic kind of intervention person.... I dont just use one thing for all issues. [/QUOTE]
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