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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 646726" data-attributes="member: 18100"><p>I hate to admit this but I have also hung up on people. I just got so tired of it all ya know? No excuse I know. Well, yes, guilty and afraid to leave. More less guilty. I know if I had a job and backup place to live Id feel less afraid. I really can see a trailer( apartments cost to much) with my name on it I pray but getting the money is a whole another thing. Called job again. Gpa does get a check and wants to save money to leave me after he dies to handle a few bills until I find a job. When I tell him the house or kids needs something he pays but yikes never ending guilt trip.. same with when I ask for me. My dad doesnt make much and has bills to pay, so far he hasnt barely needed anything from me, lately just fixing foods( he does when hes not in so much pain)</p><p></p><p>Grandpa gets up at all hours sometimes but usually by 3/4am and used to wait until 6am for the girls to come and help and fix things. My dad is grouchy but not like my grandpa. Dads more open to things and is still driving around, and helping me keep the kids busy and with h.w. as much as possible. He wants me to get a job so we can have a back up. I agree. Sister will come home... she had never been diagnosed but is a cross of both my kids. My aunt was given POA from gpa and now she wants to reverse the WILL to the way SHE had it which is my kids school money and this house go to her.My grandpas check can pay for help or the VA and she says no pull it out of his savings I said why? As long as Im working I dont need any money from him.</p><p></p><p>I was at gpas last night, asked what he would like for breakfast, gave pills, danish, drink, and he wanted nothing. Son decided to throw another violent tantrum and still very moody..I couldnt go visit. My dad ofered to help him gpa blew and said hes lonely and everyone quits and no one cares about him etc and he will go to VA. I told him before I need to get son calm and counseling with medications and things hopefully calm down and I could help some and visit. But If he wants me there all day, I have to work all night, when do I sleep? All day with gpa is min 8hrs add job going to and from full shift /10hrs depending if I need a bus, then time with kids.. ummm, just dont see it. Son is home Im exhausted and have lots to do places to go and cant now. Bleh!Oh add I hit my toe lastnight and its bruised and sore.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Well everyone, keep your fingers crossed that someone hires me quick!!! Thanks</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 646726, member: 18100"] I hate to admit this but I have also hung up on people. I just got so tired of it all ya know? No excuse I know. Well, yes, guilty and afraid to leave. More less guilty. I know if I had a job and backup place to live Id feel less afraid. I really can see a trailer( apartments cost to much) with my name on it I pray but getting the money is a whole another thing. Called job again. Gpa does get a check and wants to save money to leave me after he dies to handle a few bills until I find a job. When I tell him the house or kids needs something he pays but yikes never ending guilt trip.. same with when I ask for me. My dad doesnt make much and has bills to pay, so far he hasnt barely needed anything from me, lately just fixing foods( he does when hes not in so much pain) Grandpa gets up at all hours sometimes but usually by 3/4am and used to wait until 6am for the girls to come and help and fix things. My dad is grouchy but not like my grandpa. Dads more open to things and is still driving around, and helping me keep the kids busy and with h.w. as much as possible. He wants me to get a job so we can have a back up. I agree. Sister will come home... she had never been diagnosed but is a cross of both my kids. My aunt was given POA from gpa and now she wants to reverse the WILL to the way SHE had it which is my kids school money and this house go to her.My grandpas check can pay for help or the VA and she says no pull it out of his savings I said why? As long as Im working I dont need any money from him. I was at gpas last night, asked what he would like for breakfast, gave pills, danish, drink, and he wanted nothing. Son decided to throw another violent tantrum and still very moody..I couldnt go visit. My dad ofered to help him gpa blew and said hes lonely and everyone quits and no one cares about him etc and he will go to VA. I told him before I need to get son calm and counseling with medications and things hopefully calm down and I could help some and visit. But If he wants me there all day, I have to work all night, when do I sleep? All day with gpa is min 8hrs add job going to and from full shift /10hrs depending if I need a bus, then time with kids.. ummm, just dont see it. Son is home Im exhausted and have lots to do places to go and cant now. Bleh!Oh add I hit my toe lastnight and its bruised and sore. Well everyone, keep your fingers crossed that someone hires me quick!!! Thanks [/QUOTE]
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