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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 648160" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Confused, you are sooooooooooooo headed out of the slave factory you once lived in. I'm so proud of you!</p><p></p><p>If you can think of us while you muster up the courage, tell Grampa that you're not doing what the woman he fired did. He had her to do it and he decided he didn't want her so he'll have to do without. Do not go back to it. The man is impossible, just like a child difficult child. It's not his age. It's HIM. My ex's great-grandma lived to be 94 and I never heard her yell or utter a mean word to anyone and she would receive upwards of 100 Christmas cards each year. He is like he always was and everyone was scared of him so they decided to make sure he got his way...and they decided YOU (probably a nice, sensitive, responsible person) were going to be his caregiver...and dad's and aunties and sisters too. Nuts is what it is. Abuse is what it is. But only you can leave. You are like an abused wife who has such low self-esteem she stays with her abusive husband, but many of those women leave and you can too. And they will all abuse you for taking your life back, but you admitted you gave it up.</p><p></p><p>I can understand your not wanting to work with people. There are many desk jobs that don't require continuous contact with others. And one day you will bounce back and be the person who had spunk and spirit and cared about yourself. You can do it. You WILL do it.</p><p></p><p>Please try hard. We care about you. Don't let grandpa guilt you into getting up at 5am to make coffee again. THat's insane. He can buy a coffee pot anyway that makes coffee at 5am and if he doesn't do it, well, guess he doesn't want coffee that badly. What a control freak. You think he'd give it up by his age...lol. I think that way about 90 year old father too (mine). Why is he still playing tyrant? Doesn't it take up energy they don't have? LOL!!!!</p><p></p><p>I like your new spunk!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 648160, member: 1550"] Confused, you are sooooooooooooo headed out of the slave factory you once lived in. I'm so proud of you! If you can think of us while you muster up the courage, tell Grampa that you're not doing what the woman he fired did. He had her to do it and he decided he didn't want her so he'll have to do without. Do not go back to it. The man is impossible, just like a child difficult child. It's not his age. It's HIM. My ex's great-grandma lived to be 94 and I never heard her yell or utter a mean word to anyone and she would receive upwards of 100 Christmas cards each year. He is like he always was and everyone was scared of him so they decided to make sure he got his way...and they decided YOU (probably a nice, sensitive, responsible person) were going to be his caregiver...and dad's and aunties and sisters too. Nuts is what it is. Abuse is what it is. But only you can leave. You are like an abused wife who has such low self-esteem she stays with her abusive husband, but many of those women leave and you can too. And they will all abuse you for taking your life back, but you admitted you gave it up. I can understand your not wanting to work with people. There are many desk jobs that don't require continuous contact with others. And one day you will bounce back and be the person who had spunk and spirit and cared about yourself. You can do it. You WILL do it. Please try hard. We care about you. Don't let grandpa guilt you into getting up at 5am to make coffee again. THat's insane. He can buy a coffee pot anyway that makes coffee at 5am and if he doesn't do it, well, guess he doesn't want coffee that badly. What a control freak. You think he'd give it up by his age...lol. I think that way about 90 year old father too (mine). Why is he still playing tyrant? Doesn't it take up energy they don't have? LOL!!!! I like your new spunk! [/QUOTE]
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