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Elder Care & childrens care...guilt...choices...obligations..love..
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 649128" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Maybe you're just tired of all the pressure that you put on yourself to please everybody?</p><p></p><p>Even if your kids don't want you to work, whose in charge? Lots of us work even if our kids don't want us to. </p><p></p><p>You are the only boss of yourself and your life. You just have to exercise your control over your own life. It does not really sound as if you are liking taking care of so many people (difficult people). At some point you will have to give yourself a break or your body and mind will shut down and then what will everyone do while you can no longer do it? </p><p></p><p>Hint: I think you'd be amazed at how fast they'd figure it out. They have you so they don't do it, but they would take the necessary steps to have everyone who is sick being taken care of if you wouldn't do it because they sure as heck aren't going to. </p><p></p><p>I do not know who, if anyone, would step up to take care of your kids, even with all you've done for everyone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 649128, member: 1550"] Maybe you're just tired of all the pressure that you put on yourself to please everybody? Even if your kids don't want you to work, whose in charge? Lots of us work even if our kids don't want us to. You are the only boss of yourself and your life. You just have to exercise your control over your own life. It does not really sound as if you are liking taking care of so many people (difficult people). At some point you will have to give yourself a break or your body and mind will shut down and then what will everyone do while you can no longer do it? Hint: I think you'd be amazed at how fast they'd figure it out. They have you so they don't do it, but they would take the necessary steps to have everyone who is sick being taken care of if you wouldn't do it because they sure as heck aren't going to. I do not know who, if anyone, would step up to take care of your kids, even with all you've done for everyone. [/QUOTE]
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