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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 649485" data-attributes="member: 18100"><p>Thank you, ya know, I would not allow kids or me to be at gpas or even in this house if he was physically abusive to any of us. His mouth runs but I havent let the kids hear him as I know how to handle that between them.He hasnt made any comments to them about school or behaving and all he does for them. I told him not to or they wont see him. ( before- none of us has gone down- no worries I wont even drop off food as my dad is doing that) Am I hearing it? Yes!!! I have a migraine so bad bleh!!! Its me hes doing this to , telling this stuff to. Id never put my kids in a bad situation. My grandpa didnt bring down all my self esteem as some of my exes have, ex friends, and strangers, not working. Its embarrassing and hurtful to hear remarks and laughs about my looks. Even when I was thinner Im no model face or body wise. But then I knew I had/have my love for my kids, family, people over all. Going to the vet seeing them just dive in pick the dogs up, ( even the big ones) even handling any nervous ones etc, Im all thinking to myself" I cant do that anymore Im to old" . I dont want to think that way! Ha Im oldish but I know with job training on computers( getting interested in that but not bilingual), stocking, anything= practice. </p><p></p><p>See I also look at how people judge me everywhere,I start to fall down when I hear some stuff or feel bad for making them mad or whatever, Im far from perfect but I am a good mom and a good person overall.But you know what? I dont care what anyone says anymore ( ok I do but Im not trying to dwell on it), or who changes their opinion of me for whatever reason, Im going to be who I want to be ( yes a nice person and helpful mom as I been) I know I am a work in progress I have been, My kids ARE getting help, Im slowly hopefully losing more weight-every pound counts right?( eating less and less junk too). Son and I will be going to a public school Monday to have him evaluated through their Special Education -its a far district but its public and recently some parents said improved we shall see( to set appointment and give info, then they set the date) Am I worried yes, Im not for the schools here until I leave town, plus I hope this doesnt affect son mentally to bad, as hes already upset about changing schools. But Im the parent so hopefully he will accept it one day, hopefully its a good move. I keep telling him he will be ok, hes strong and smart, change happens to kids and people, look at the military families or families whos jobs takes them out of town. </p><p></p><p>Son has been ok, still a mouth but right now hes very angry about moving this quickly. Hes not handling it well, we are still getting things done and looking around. He wants to be in his home <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> He says he has friends here( couple kids yes) and he is happy here. </p><p></p><p>Well, Im closing this ramble so, thank you again. Thank all of you again and no matter what, I care for all of you and hope you all have a great day <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Hugs to ALL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 649485, member: 18100"] Thank you, ya know, I would not allow kids or me to be at gpas or even in this house if he was physically abusive to any of us. His mouth runs but I havent let the kids hear him as I know how to handle that between them.He hasnt made any comments to them about school or behaving and all he does for them. I told him not to or they wont see him. ( before- none of us has gone down- no worries I wont even drop off food as my dad is doing that) Am I hearing it? Yes!!! I have a migraine so bad bleh!!! Its me hes doing this to , telling this stuff to. Id never put my kids in a bad situation. My grandpa didnt bring down all my self esteem as some of my exes have, ex friends, and strangers, not working. Its embarrassing and hurtful to hear remarks and laughs about my looks. Even when I was thinner Im no model face or body wise. But then I knew I had/have my love for my kids, family, people over all. Going to the vet seeing them just dive in pick the dogs up, ( even the big ones) even handling any nervous ones etc, Im all thinking to myself" I cant do that anymore Im to old" . I dont want to think that way! Ha Im oldish but I know with job training on computers( getting interested in that but not bilingual), stocking, anything= practice. See I also look at how people judge me everywhere,I start to fall down when I hear some stuff or feel bad for making them mad or whatever, Im far from perfect but I am a good mom and a good person overall.But you know what? I dont care what anyone says anymore ( ok I do but Im not trying to dwell on it), or who changes their opinion of me for whatever reason, Im going to be who I want to be ( yes a nice person and helpful mom as I been) I know I am a work in progress I have been, My kids ARE getting help, Im slowly hopefully losing more weight-every pound counts right?( eating less and less junk too). Son and I will be going to a public school Monday to have him evaluated through their Special Education -its a far district but its public and recently some parents said improved we shall see( to set appointment and give info, then they set the date) Am I worried yes, Im not for the schools here until I leave town, plus I hope this doesnt affect son mentally to bad, as hes already upset about changing schools. But Im the parent so hopefully he will accept it one day, hopefully its a good move. I keep telling him he will be ok, hes strong and smart, change happens to kids and people, look at the military families or families whos jobs takes them out of town. Son has been ok, still a mouth but right now hes very angry about moving this quickly. Hes not handling it well, we are still getting things done and looking around. He wants to be in his home :( He says he has friends here( couple kids yes) and he is happy here. Well, Im closing this ramble so, thank you again. Thank all of you again and no matter what, I care for all of you and hope you all have a great day :) Hugs to ALL [/QUOTE]
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