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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 186266" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>He should have ran that letter by his sponsor first. I would guess that if he had, the sponsor would not have given his blessing to send you that letter.</p><p></p><p>That was NOT an apology.</p><p></p><p>Making amends means the addict apologizes (and they are very specific about this) for HIS OWN shortcomings, and not mentioning anything about what he feels was a wrongdoing to him. </p><p>I had to bite my tongue an awful lot when making my amends to Matt. I was not allowed to mention how he was an out-of-work, non-money-earning, never-cleaning-the-house, hissy-fit-throwing LOSER. </p><p></p><p>In addition, if he were truly working the program correctly and making a proper amends, he would realize that you did what you did this past year for your very survival. Instead, he is taking it as a personal attack against him.</p><p></p><p>Dude's gotta work on his own self before he goes pointing the finger.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 186266, member: 3647"] He should have ran that letter by his sponsor first. I would guess that if he had, the sponsor would not have given his blessing to send you that letter. That was NOT an apology. Making amends means the addict apologizes (and they are very specific about this) for HIS OWN shortcomings, and not mentioning anything about what he feels was a wrongdoing to him. I had to bite my tongue an awful lot when making my amends to Matt. I was not allowed to mention how he was an out-of-work, non-money-earning, never-cleaning-the-house, hissy-fit-throwing LOSER. In addition, if he were truly working the program correctly and making a proper amends, he would realize that you did what you did this past year for your very survival. Instead, he is taking it as a personal attack against him. Dude's gotta work on his own self before he goes pointing the finger. [/QUOTE]
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