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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 621263" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi there and I'm sorry you are walking on this journey. If he is a drug addict, you can almost guarantee that the car money will go to drugs. It is your choice whether to send it or not but I sure wouldn't send him any of YOUR money...ever. He is probably going to call and ask you for things anyway and many of us don't answer or set strong boundaries and refuse to give them stuff after it is clear that they are not trying to get their lives together. </p><p></p><p>The more you share, the more we can help, but you have to do it your own way. Does he still live with you? Does he work? Pay rent? Pay for his toys? Is he currently homeless? Is he disrespectful? Has he been in jail? You don't have to answer. Just a few things that are helpful. </p><p></p><p>"God grant me the serenity to accept t he things I can not change,</p><p>the courage to change the things I can,</p><p>"and the wisdom to know the difference."</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 621263, member: 1550"] Hi there and I'm sorry you are walking on this journey. If he is a drug addict, you can almost guarantee that the car money will go to drugs. It is your choice whether to send it or not but I sure wouldn't send him any of YOUR money...ever. He is probably going to call and ask you for things anyway and many of us don't answer or set strong boundaries and refuse to give them stuff after it is clear that they are not trying to get their lives together. The more you share, the more we can help, but you have to do it your own way. Does he still live with you? Does he work? Pay rent? Pay for his toys? Is he currently homeless? Is he disrespectful? Has he been in jail? You don't have to answer. Just a few things that are helpful. "God grant me the serenity to accept t he things I can not change, the courage to change the things I can, "and the wisdom to know the difference." [/QUOTE]
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