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<blockquote data-quote="daralex" data-source="post: 119173" data-attributes="member: 4467"><p>Hi Jennifer,</p><p>I know changing things arounsd a lot can be hectic, but if your friend is going to provide a calmer atmosphere I would go for it. Kids pick up on things even when we don't think they do. Your daughters can sense the tension where you are. I'm not a big Dr. Phil fan - but one thing he said stays with me - everytime kids hear argueing or raised voices it changes who they are. I was in an abusive relationship with my difficult child's bio dad and I can tell you that the yelling changed me as an adult - imagine what it does to little ones who already have problems of their own. I know the thought of moving must be overwheming, but from everything you've said the past few days I would suggesting getting the heck out of dodge! Moving in with this guy may have been the right choice atthat time - but you now know it is not working. It sounds like you're not thrilled in being there either. If you move your girls will get a better sense of calm from you too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="daralex, post: 119173, member: 4467"] Hi Jennifer, I know changing things arounsd a lot can be hectic, but if your friend is going to provide a calmer atmosphere I would go for it. Kids pick up on things even when we don't think they do. Your daughters can sense the tension where you are. I'm not a big Dr. Phil fan - but one thing he said stays with me - everytime kids hear argueing or raised voices it changes who they are. I was in an abusive relationship with my difficult child's bio dad and I can tell you that the yelling changed me as an adult - imagine what it does to little ones who already have problems of their own. I know the thought of moving must be overwheming, but from everything you've said the past few days I would suggesting getting the heck out of dodge! Moving in with this guy may have been the right choice atthat time - but you now know it is not working. It sounds like you're not thrilled in being there either. If you move your girls will get a better sense of calm from you too. [/QUOTE]
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