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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 119261" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi,</p><p></p><p>i can only imagine what you guys must think. yup i gotta leave with-o a doubt. he yells at me and then tries to make up for it doesn't scream obsenities or anything and yup normal arguments are acceptable yet this isn't. </p><p></p><p>i made a decision mos. ago due to financial factors, i've been trying now for while to figure it all out, tried renting a few places yet the credit score stopped it from happening. </p><p></p><p>shelter isn't the answer at all, this i know. but it's complete bullsh*t that my little one who already has anxiety has to listen to any of his cra* to be very blunt. it's his problem. certainly not mine or theirs.</p><p></p><p>kids are so funny though, they hear him get upset with me and i know he would never hurt me been in one of those twisted situations younger out of blue boyfriend decided to get physical and well let's just say i beat him up......</p><p></p><p>anyway i tol dhim today sorry no longer a stable environment for my people. yet my kids will gravitate towards him after he yells at me as soon as he does soemthing nice, either taking us to breakfast, etc. amazing.</p><p></p><p>so i'm going to call my friend tonight it's just out of district his house while i get up on my feet he's hte only one who i know would consider taking us in. i just didn't want to confuse her more by placing her in different situation again. until we finally get a home base.</p><p></p><p>yet if i bring up anything of any importance to him because running a household together requires conversations it usually ends with him yelling at me. he looses his cool quickly as i said. </p><p></p><p>i'm not going to have my kids continually seeing that even if it's just 3 x a week 3x too many. tried low income housing i make too much. problem is i'm not at work reg. due to rin's behavior as of late. so i['m not truly earning what my yearly income is.</p><p></p><p>let me repeat i'm not getting hit i dont want you guys to worry that is what's going on. yet you are correct yelling at me and not being able to handle ones self like an adult isn't acceptable. he tries to push on me that it's the situatoin with rin and dealing with it with me that's throwing him over the edge. the most he's done is sat up a few nights with us, and listened to me vent a few times.</p><p></p><p>anyway so that's that. </p><p></p><p>jen</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 119261, member: 4514"] hi, i can only imagine what you guys must think. yup i gotta leave with-o a doubt. he yells at me and then tries to make up for it doesn't scream obsenities or anything and yup normal arguments are acceptable yet this isn't. i made a decision mos. ago due to financial factors, i've been trying now for while to figure it all out, tried renting a few places yet the credit score stopped it from happening. shelter isn't the answer at all, this i know. but it's complete bullsh*t that my little one who already has anxiety has to listen to any of his cra* to be very blunt. it's his problem. certainly not mine or theirs. kids are so funny though, they hear him get upset with me and i know he would never hurt me been in one of those twisted situations younger out of blue boyfriend decided to get physical and well let's just say i beat him up...... anyway i tol dhim today sorry no longer a stable environment for my people. yet my kids will gravitate towards him after he yells at me as soon as he does soemthing nice, either taking us to breakfast, etc. amazing. so i'm going to call my friend tonight it's just out of district his house while i get up on my feet he's hte only one who i know would consider taking us in. i just didn't want to confuse her more by placing her in different situation again. until we finally get a home base. yet if i bring up anything of any importance to him because running a household together requires conversations it usually ends with him yelling at me. he looses his cool quickly as i said. i'm not going to have my kids continually seeing that even if it's just 3 x a week 3x too many. tried low income housing i make too much. problem is i'm not at work reg. due to rin's behavior as of late. so i['m not truly earning what my yearly income is. let me repeat i'm not getting hit i dont want you guys to worry that is what's going on. yet you are correct yelling at me and not being able to handle ones self like an adult isn't acceptable. he tries to push on me that it's the situatoin with rin and dealing with it with me that's throwing him over the edge. the most he's done is sat up a few nights with us, and listened to me vent a few times. anyway so that's that. jen [/QUOTE]
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