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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 119432" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>i really meant it i didn't want you to worry. you've all been great and no i didn't wnat you to worry.</p><p></p><p>i'm going to be contacting a friend of mine. i do not believe he'd ever hit me yet who wants to stay and find out? not I.</p><p></p><p>i don't have any issues with walking away from him, i truly do not. my fear is financial. my therapist and i spoke of it all today. she has met him and stated that unless i can stay out of confrontatoin with him i should go. she knows i'm an incredibly outspoken woman and that would never work.</p><p></p><p>he took us all out to dinner tonight and his famous word is jerk or idiot his big slang words. so i sat next to my little one. he thinks it's funny sometimes when he refers to his kids as jerks when they act badly, i do not choose to speak to mine that way.</p><p></p><p>so hence my older one did soemthing ridiculous and silly and he turned around and called her an idiot. i looked at him and said at no time do you ever speak to either one of my children that way. he turned to say you know i dont' mean anything by it i say it to my own kids. i siad yup and i cringe everytime you do it's ridiculous make no mistake these are my children and do not speak to them in that way.</p><p></p><p>so needless to say dinner went well........LOL....</p><p></p><p>see here's the thing i say how i feel i expect respect a calm household a honest and trustworthy man, etc. he doens't fit the bill i've learned not by a long shot.</p><p></p><p>was just afraid of upsetting little one. she adores his children, their all playing right now actually. she smiles when their here. hopefully i can handle it in such a way that they can remain friends.</p><p></p><p>Jen</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 119432, member: 4514"] i really meant it i didn't want you to worry. you've all been great and no i didn't wnat you to worry. i'm going to be contacting a friend of mine. i do not believe he'd ever hit me yet who wants to stay and find out? not I. i don't have any issues with walking away from him, i truly do not. my fear is financial. my therapist and i spoke of it all today. she has met him and stated that unless i can stay out of confrontatoin with him i should go. she knows i'm an incredibly outspoken woman and that would never work. he took us all out to dinner tonight and his famous word is jerk or idiot his big slang words. so i sat next to my little one. he thinks it's funny sometimes when he refers to his kids as jerks when they act badly, i do not choose to speak to mine that way. so hence my older one did soemthing ridiculous and silly and he turned around and called her an idiot. i looked at him and said at no time do you ever speak to either one of my children that way. he turned to say you know i dont' mean anything by it i say it to my own kids. i siad yup and i cringe everytime you do it's ridiculous make no mistake these are my children and do not speak to them in that way. so needless to say dinner went well........LOL.... see here's the thing i say how i feel i expect respect a calm household a honest and trustworthy man, etc. he doens't fit the bill i've learned not by a long shot. was just afraid of upsetting little one. she adores his children, their all playing right now actually. she smiles when their here. hopefully i can handle it in such a way that they can remain friends. Jen [/QUOTE]
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