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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 120382" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>Jennifer, I don't live your life but grew up in a home where dad was a very loud bully who seemed very threatening when angry. It's not a pleasant way to grow up.</p><p>It would seem that part of the reason you are at this spot is no real plan. Finances made you jump in before you were sure he was a good fit for you. Before you impulsively make another decision have a plan. </p><p>You can't live with a friend for long. This sort of kindness wears thin after a couple of weeks. What happens after that?</p><p>Are the kids going to have to change schools? </p><p>Try to think it through as to where you are heading. If you wait until your credit score improves, it may be a long time. </p><p>I'm just trying to bring up the reality. Finances are a reason for you making some less than adequate choices. </p><p>How can you change the financial situation? Can difficult child receive medicaid? If you have no out of pocket medical expenses then you will be in better shape. You simply can't not pay rent and expect to have a stable home. </p><p></p><p>It sounds as if you want to jump out of this situation and into a new one. I'd think long and hard about where that step takes you and what goes on after that. Project forward a few steps as to where you want to go and make a plan to get there.</p><p>in my humble opinion</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 120382, member: 3"] Jennifer, I don't live your life but grew up in a home where dad was a very loud bully who seemed very threatening when angry. It's not a pleasant way to grow up. It would seem that part of the reason you are at this spot is no real plan. Finances made you jump in before you were sure he was a good fit for you. Before you impulsively make another decision have a plan. You can't live with a friend for long. This sort of kindness wears thin after a couple of weeks. What happens after that? Are the kids going to have to change schools? Try to think it through as to where you are heading. If you wait until your credit score improves, it may be a long time. I'm just trying to bring up the reality. Finances are a reason for you making some less than adequate choices. How can you change the financial situation? Can difficult child receive medicaid? If you have no out of pocket medical expenses then you will be in better shape. You simply can't not pay rent and expect to have a stable home. It sounds as if you want to jump out of this situation and into a new one. I'd think long and hard about where that step takes you and what goes on after that. Project forward a few steps as to where you want to go and make a plan to get there. in my humble opinion [/QUOTE]
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