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<blockquote data-quote="BloodiedButUnbowed" data-source="post: 747359" data-attributes="member: 13303"><p>I am sorry to hear of your situation. Ours is very different but I do wonder if there will come a day when one or both of my troubled stepsons will expect us to maintain them as your son expects to be maintained. If it happens I hope my W and I will be on the same page as to how to proceed.</p><p></p><p>I believe in providing a helping hand, but when it comes to adults, it's too easy for what we intend as a temporary stopgap emergency measure - to intervene with love and support during a trying and difficult time in their lives - to become status quo. Our adult children know how to manipulate and exploit our weak spots where they're concerned, as well, making it even harder.</p><p></p><p>Nothing can soothe your aching mother's heart, because this is a horrible situation that every parent dreads, and it has no easy solutions. But from a legal perspective, I believe you would simply have to follow your state's eviction procedures. </p><p></p><p>The hard part, if he refuses to leave, is what to do next. Some parents have moved themselves. I know of a parent in just that situation at the moment. </p><p></p><p>Keep posting, we're here for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BloodiedButUnbowed, post: 747359, member: 13303"] I am sorry to hear of your situation. Ours is very different but I do wonder if there will come a day when one or both of my troubled stepsons will expect us to maintain them as your son expects to be maintained. If it happens I hope my W and I will be on the same page as to how to proceed. I believe in providing a helping hand, but when it comes to adults, it's too easy for what we intend as a temporary stopgap emergency measure - to intervene with love and support during a trying and difficult time in their lives - to become status quo. Our adult children know how to manipulate and exploit our weak spots where they're concerned, as well, making it even harder. Nothing can soothe your aching mother's heart, because this is a horrible situation that every parent dreads, and it has no easy solutions. But from a legal perspective, I believe you would simply have to follow your state's eviction procedures. The hard part, if he refuses to leave, is what to do next. Some parents have moved themselves. I know of a parent in just that situation at the moment. Keep posting, we're here for you. [/QUOTE]
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