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Ex is at it again....vent!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 562703" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>Who cares if he blames you for it? We all already know he's a lousy dad. He's not blaming you, he's <em>scapegoating</em> you. Next time she wants to let him have it, explain your concerns to her about about his triangulation and tell her it's just fine if she lets him have it, and that she needs to make sure that he gets the message that it's <em>her</em> talking, not you. He needs to understand that she is fairly well grown, and has her own opinions. His actions have consequences and his visitation isn't with <em>you</em>, it's with <em>her</em> so he'd best be ready to deal with the way <em>she </em>feels about him from now on.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 562703, member: 99"] Who cares if he blames you for it? We all already know he's a lousy dad. He's not blaming you, he's [I]scapegoating[/I] you. Next time she wants to let him have it, explain your concerns to her about about his triangulation and tell her it's just fine if she lets him have it, and that she needs to make sure that he gets the message that it's [I]her[/I] talking, not you. He needs to understand that she is fairly well grown, and has her own opinions. His actions have consequences and his visitation isn't with [I]you[/I], it's with [I]her[/I] so he'd best be ready to deal with the way [I]she [/I]feels about him from now on. [/QUOTE]
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