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Ex wants to help difficult child ..but not really
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<blockquote data-quote="HereWeGoAgain" data-source="post: 427702" data-attributes="member: 3485"><p>Joining the chorus: you are right not to say anything to her about ex's offer. Chances are he'll feel differently when not drunk and maudlin, and he may not even remember he called you about it. If he wants to he can track her down and talk to her himself. If she then accepts there is nothing you can do to stop it, except maybe try to make her to see that he'll abuse her again - but as we know if a difficult child gets something in her head, no amount of reason and logic can dislodge it. I'm sorry that she has put herself in such a bad position, with no good options, and that ex is re-injecting himself into the already-toxic mess.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HereWeGoAgain, post: 427702, member: 3485"] Joining the chorus: you are right not to say anything to her about ex's offer. Chances are he'll feel differently when not drunk and maudlin, and he may not even remember he called you about it. If he wants to he can track her down and talk to her himself. If she then accepts there is nothing you can do to stop it, except maybe try to make her to see that he'll abuse her again - but as we know if a difficult child gets something in her head, no amount of reason and logic can dislodge it. I'm sorry that she has put herself in such a bad position, with no good options, and that ex is re-injecting himself into the already-toxic mess. [/QUOTE]
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