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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 446477" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>Sus, </p><p>Thanks again for the thoughts and prayers...</p><p></p><p>I don't think daughter in law will go to a domestic violence shelter for any kind of help. I think she figures young difficult child is the only one with a problem here...She has often had trouble seeing "her part". Though she did tell a few days ago that she wishes she had let young difficult child hit bottom sooner other times that he could have been consequenced and she came to his rescue instead. </p><p></p><p>I agree that my grandbabies may need some kind of help at some point. I think they have been exposed to alot of young difficult child's anxiety issues and general aggravation. Surely it has had some kind of effect on them. Things may come out when they start school and really start interacting with others...I don't know. </p><p></p><p>I absolutely agree with letting young difficult child handle this on his own so as to say, in effect, You are strong and capable enough to climb out of this hole you have dug for yourself. It is so hard to let them fully own their consequences...but I know it's the only way he'll really learn. This has GOT to hurt...hurt enough that he won't forget!!!</p><p></p><p>I didn't hear from yesterday...meaning no call from jail. Makes me wonder if he has already gotten himself into some trouble in jail and has perhaps lost that priviledge. Though I don't think my phone will accept a collect call without me setting it up to do so. I will check into this at some point. </p><p></p><p>Don't worry about calling me right now. I really am handling things okay at the moment. </p><p>I DID read through some responses in the Archives though and appreciate you directing me to them. </p><p></p><p>Trying to stay strong and remember "how they learn". </p><p>LMS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 446477, member: 3305"] Sus, Thanks again for the thoughts and prayers... I don't think daughter in law will go to a domestic violence shelter for any kind of help. I think she figures young difficult child is the only one with a problem here...She has often had trouble seeing "her part". Though she did tell a few days ago that she wishes she had let young difficult child hit bottom sooner other times that he could have been consequenced and she came to his rescue instead. I agree that my grandbabies may need some kind of help at some point. I think they have been exposed to alot of young difficult child's anxiety issues and general aggravation. Surely it has had some kind of effect on them. Things may come out when they start school and really start interacting with others...I don't know. I absolutely agree with letting young difficult child handle this on his own so as to say, in effect, You are strong and capable enough to climb out of this hole you have dug for yourself. It is so hard to let them fully own their consequences...but I know it's the only way he'll really learn. This has GOT to hurt...hurt enough that he won't forget!!! I didn't hear from yesterday...meaning no call from jail. Makes me wonder if he has already gotten himself into some trouble in jail and has perhaps lost that priviledge. Though I don't think my phone will accept a collect call without me setting it up to do so. I will check into this at some point. Don't worry about calling me right now. I really am handling things okay at the moment. I DID read through some responses in the Archives though and appreciate you directing me to them. Trying to stay strong and remember "how they learn". LMS [/QUOTE]
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