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Explaining Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD) to the Typical World - Guilt Trip
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<blockquote data-quote="WearyWoman" data-source="post: 383713"><p><strong><em>Update</em></strong> - I called the religious ed coordinator to verify that what my husband told her is correct. I feel so demeaned by that. Anyway, she wanted to know what day my exam is on - whether it's the day of the mass or not (it's not, but I am going out of town ahead of time, need to pack and study, etc.), so then she suggested my husband bring Bubby if his schedule allows (it doesn't, as he's out of town on a work training). She wanted to know how my studying was going - like she was feeling me out as to whether or not this was a legitimate excuse or made-up one (that was my impression). </p><p> </p><p>As the conversation was happening, I felt myself getting anxious and shaky - why? I don't know, I guess I'm just a nervous person. So I told her my hubby was offended that she wanted me to call and "verify" what he had already told her. She stated that she just wanted to make sure we were "all on the same page". What?!!! I just said "okay" and hung up, as I was feeling all shaky and upset - I'm not a very assertive person.</p><p> </p><p>I'm trying to process this. Why do I have to plead my case to a religious ed coordinator? Does this seem controlling to you? I don't appreciate that she would assume that my husband and I may not be "on the same page", or that she is entitled to know when my exam is scheduled and how my studying is going.</p><p> </p><p>Just what I need on my mind right now as I'm cramming for the exam.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WearyWoman, post: 383713"] [B][I]Update[/I][/B] - I called the religious ed coordinator to verify that what my husband told her is correct. I feel so demeaned by that. Anyway, she wanted to know what day my exam is on - whether it's the day of the mass or not (it's not, but I am going out of town ahead of time, need to pack and study, etc.), so then she suggested my husband bring Bubby if his schedule allows (it doesn't, as he's out of town on a work training). She wanted to know how my studying was going - like she was feeling me out as to whether or not this was a legitimate excuse or made-up one (that was my impression). As the conversation was happening, I felt myself getting anxious and shaky - why? I don't know, I guess I'm just a nervous person. So I told her my hubby was offended that she wanted me to call and "verify" what he had already told her. She stated that she just wanted to make sure we were "all on the same page". What?!!! I just said "okay" and hung up, as I was feeling all shaky and upset - I'm not a very assertive person. I'm trying to process this. Why do I have to plead my case to a religious ed coordinator? Does this seem controlling to you? I don't appreciate that she would assume that my husband and I may not be "on the same page", or that she is entitled to know when my exam is scheduled and how my studying is going. Just what I need on my mind right now as I'm cramming for the exam. [/QUOTE]
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