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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 303427" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi guys and thank you.</p><p> </p><p>I sat up till 3 last night, was really disturbed by this entire thing. I think we all have levels of what we're willing to accept especially second time around, being most of us dealt with alot of junk first time around lol (marriage that is). </p><p> </p><p>I cant' tolerate a kid at that age talking to me that way. The things she said were horrible. I have to admit that i cannot decide consequences for her, i do not parent her. I can't control how he handles her either or tell him how to.</p><p> </p><p>So, after sitting up till 3 a.m. i decided that i have to try to come to some sort of agreement with-him that when she acts this way she is removed from our home and brought back to her mom. Since no one is willing to consequence her, and the message she gets is it's ok to treat me that way that is the only thing that i can see doing that will get her out, not damage difficult child and his other 2 and regain calm in the home. </p><p> </p><p>So i asked him today is he willing to tell her if you act that way in our home you will be brought back to your mother's.</p><p> </p><p>I can't control how these children were raised prior to me, and alot of it is i strongly in my gut believe the way she's been kit handled and allowed to perpetuate the continuing drama. it's been allowed by both parents, and also fact that her mother is extremely explosive as well in front of her always. Now his youngest who is 8 has been kicking up also. She too will be a teenager. The way i see it is we have alot of years left of his children and the teenage years. If i don't find some boundary now i will only live a very stressful existance.</p><p> </p><p>It just floors me how these kids think they can talk to adults this way, it really does. had i did that when i was a kid i would of been drop kicked onto floor lol. i feared my mother, but it was a healthy fear ya know....</p><p> </p><p>thanks again.......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 303427, member: 4514"] hi guys and thank you. I sat up till 3 last night, was really disturbed by this entire thing. I think we all have levels of what we're willing to accept especially second time around, being most of us dealt with alot of junk first time around lol (marriage that is). I cant' tolerate a kid at that age talking to me that way. The things she said were horrible. I have to admit that i cannot decide consequences for her, i do not parent her. I can't control how he handles her either or tell him how to. So, after sitting up till 3 a.m. i decided that i have to try to come to some sort of agreement with-him that when she acts this way she is removed from our home and brought back to her mom. Since no one is willing to consequence her, and the message she gets is it's ok to treat me that way that is the only thing that i can see doing that will get her out, not damage difficult child and his other 2 and regain calm in the home. So i asked him today is he willing to tell her if you act that way in our home you will be brought back to your mother's. I can't control how these children were raised prior to me, and alot of it is i strongly in my gut believe the way she's been kit handled and allowed to perpetuate the continuing drama. it's been allowed by both parents, and also fact that her mother is extremely explosive as well in front of her always. Now his youngest who is 8 has been kicking up also. She too will be a teenager. The way i see it is we have alot of years left of his children and the teenage years. If i don't find some boundary now i will only live a very stressful existance. It just floors me how these kids think they can talk to adults this way, it really does. had i did that when i was a kid i would of been drop kicked onto floor lol. i feared my mother, but it was a healthy fear ya know.... thanks again....... [/QUOTE]
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