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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 303456" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi,</p><p> </p><p>it's not mean at all, it's honest and your opinion which i always appreciate all opinions. To be able to get a better grasp on it for you to see i'll share more. Her dad refuses to consequence her, I asked him to send her up the third bedroom, to sit quietly, read a book, etc. he refused to. I did not want her to leave initially at all. Yet him not giving her any consequence sends a message to my two children with whom are very impressionable, and to his other two children that this behavior is acceptable in our home. yet it isnt. </p><p> </p><p>I'd love if he'd parent her with me, consequence her, talk to her after give her coping skills, choices. Yet that isnt' how his ex and him function with her, she doesn't get them at all which in turn is partly why she is acting how she is.</p><p> </p><p>So, this remove her from home to me is my last ditch effort to draw some type of boundary for myself and the other children with whom do infact get damaged by these upsetting scenes.</p><p> </p><p>Also she's been to a pyschdoc with whom found nothing wrong with her, there is no diagnosis. I'm not a dr. i only know from work experience and my own raising yet truthfully the dynamic that exists between the parents and her i think she's fine, i just think she does because she is allowed to do. Which truly is a dramatic difference between children with whom do have a chemical inbalance and truly require medication as mine does and extreme guidance.</p><p> </p><p>Anyhow, i've always done for her, spend time with all of them am very hands on always have been, have pushed for her to be in therapy when her own mom said she doesn't have the time. When she got violent on their end than begged me to live here i told him i'd do it yet under certain conditions that being i get to parent her also and we work together on rules and she doesn't call her mom for an out. he would not agree so we did not take his 3.</p><p> </p><p>so, anyway tha'Tourette's Syndrome my predictament. He wont' allow me to parent with him, he won't consequence her at all, so this is my idea of drawing boundaries and her understanding her behavior will not be tolerated. there has to be a line in my opinion.</p><p> </p><p>i hope that gives you a better take on it</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 303456, member: 4514"] hi, it's not mean at all, it's honest and your opinion which i always appreciate all opinions. To be able to get a better grasp on it for you to see i'll share more. Her dad refuses to consequence her, I asked him to send her up the third bedroom, to sit quietly, read a book, etc. he refused to. I did not want her to leave initially at all. Yet him not giving her any consequence sends a message to my two children with whom are very impressionable, and to his other two children that this behavior is acceptable in our home. yet it isnt. I'd love if he'd parent her with me, consequence her, talk to her after give her coping skills, choices. Yet that isnt' how his ex and him function with her, she doesn't get them at all which in turn is partly why she is acting how she is. So, this remove her from home to me is my last ditch effort to draw some type of boundary for myself and the other children with whom do infact get damaged by these upsetting scenes. Also she's been to a pyschdoc with whom found nothing wrong with her, there is no diagnosis. I'm not a dr. i only know from work experience and my own raising yet truthfully the dynamic that exists between the parents and her i think she's fine, i just think she does because she is allowed to do. Which truly is a dramatic difference between children with whom do have a chemical inbalance and truly require medication as mine does and extreme guidance. Anyhow, i've always done for her, spend time with all of them am very hands on always have been, have pushed for her to be in therapy when her own mom said she doesn't have the time. When she got violent on their end than begged me to live here i told him i'd do it yet under certain conditions that being i get to parent her also and we work together on rules and she doesn't call her mom for an out. he would not agree so we did not take his 3. so, anyway tha'Tourette's Syndrome my predictament. He wont' allow me to parent with him, he won't consequence her at all, so this is my idea of drawing boundaries and her understanding her behavior will not be tolerated. there has to be a line in my opinion. i hope that gives you a better take on it [/QUOTE]
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