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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 303486" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>like i said he won't consequence her at all, as she stands there calling me a s___t and a loser and to leave the house and a few other choice words. it's al in how dad handles it to be honest. she's the kid. yet he isn't handling it. he just lets her rip and than says oh honey come here you want some popcorn? that isn't parenting, that's taking the easy way out which is extremely harmful to her. trust me id' rather he parent her with me together the way it should be than to toss her out. yet i cna't and wont' be abused that way infront of difficult child and his other two with whom are already showing some serious anger signs to be quite honest. the little 8 year old yesterday who i still experience good moments with especially when i tuck her in, said to me yesterday after i asked her to go clean up the toys with difficult child they played with "if i go upstairs and there isnt'a mess i'm going to (and made the sign of cutting my head off with a knife)". see my point?? lol. these kids really can't see this behavior is tolerated here at all. </p><p> </p><p>it's sad yet his oldest has some serious stuff going on and it's unaddressed. last year she attacked his ex, her partner, ripped apart the house and still no therapy. it's craziness.</p><p> </p><p>i am just looking to handle it the best i can. i can't detach with love when i have a kid in my face cursing me out and refusing to calm down, i'm sorry i cant. i've known her for 2 years and i've tried my best and will continue to do so, yet not when it's at the risk of my own self and the other kids in the home.</p><p> </p><p>that is what dad used to do when she'd attack them over there, he'd pull her out and bring her over this way. it's obviously a sick cycle they've got going on. my big concern here is the other 2 kids and mine.</p><p> </p><p>stinks.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 303486, member: 4514"] hi like i said he won't consequence her at all, as she stands there calling me a s___t and a loser and to leave the house and a few other choice words. it's al in how dad handles it to be honest. she's the kid. yet he isn't handling it. he just lets her rip and than says oh honey come here you want some popcorn? that isn't parenting, that's taking the easy way out which is extremely harmful to her. trust me id' rather he parent her with me together the way it should be than to toss her out. yet i cna't and wont' be abused that way infront of difficult child and his other two with whom are already showing some serious anger signs to be quite honest. the little 8 year old yesterday who i still experience good moments with especially when i tuck her in, said to me yesterday after i asked her to go clean up the toys with difficult child they played with "if i go upstairs and there isnt'a mess i'm going to (and made the sign of cutting my head off with a knife)". see my point?? lol. these kids really can't see this behavior is tolerated here at all. it's sad yet his oldest has some serious stuff going on and it's unaddressed. last year she attacked his ex, her partner, ripped apart the house and still no therapy. it's craziness. i am just looking to handle it the best i can. i can't detach with love when i have a kid in my face cursing me out and refusing to calm down, i'm sorry i cant. i've known her for 2 years and i've tried my best and will continue to do so, yet not when it's at the risk of my own self and the other kids in the home. that is what dad used to do when she'd attack them over there, he'd pull her out and bring her over this way. it's obviously a sick cycle they've got going on. my big concern here is the other 2 kids and mine. stinks. [/QUOTE]
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