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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 606617" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Malika, I'm not sure he means alone and I'm not sure all kids have the ability to learn how to behave differently. But that is a trip you have to take yourself. In general, the kids tend to get worse until the Terrible Teen years. If he does not improve within the next year, perhaps consider that he is one of those kids who needs more than a loving mother's teaching. He is getting too old to be acting up in public and not getting any outside support. It doesn't always help, but it's another person involved who has ideas, and, best of all, the education regarding kids like ours.</p><p></p><p>Your friend sounds like a nut. However, there are many not-nuts who will judge J's behaviors as your failure as a parent. You can't let them get to you. How is his school toward reactive children? What do they do? A lot of coping skills are taught in school, at least in the US. There is help for differently wired kids. You have to consider that at some point he may start to act out this way in school. I'm glad he is no longer in that other school. Is this one better?</p><p></p><p>But you are a good mother and I certainly wish the best for cute little J <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 606617, member: 1550"] Malika, I'm not sure he means alone and I'm not sure all kids have the ability to learn how to behave differently. But that is a trip you have to take yourself. In general, the kids tend to get worse until the Terrible Teen years. If he does not improve within the next year, perhaps consider that he is one of those kids who needs more than a loving mother's teaching. He is getting too old to be acting up in public and not getting any outside support. It doesn't always help, but it's another person involved who has ideas, and, best of all, the education regarding kids like ours. Your friend sounds like a nut. However, there are many not-nuts who will judge J's behaviors as your failure as a parent. You can't let them get to you. How is his school toward reactive children? What do they do? A lot of coping skills are taught in school, at least in the US. There is help for differently wired kids. You have to consider that at some point he may start to act out this way in school. I'm glad he is no longer in that other school. Is this one better? But you are a good mother and I certainly wish the best for cute little J :) [/QUOTE]
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