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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 411254" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I don't know if her sons will speak against her or not. They sure were open with me and when she was born were very worried that exSIL would treat niece the way they were treated. </p><p> </p><p>His attorney is a shark. My mom hired her when exSIL first left him - because she is the best in our area and mom didn't want exSIL to get her. Other top atty for this kind of thing is my husband's exfiance. She is awesome and will NOT take a parent like exSIL as a client. She will drop clients like that or will do all she can to make sure they do not get custody. She also has been known to be appointed as the child's atty in disputed custody cases.</p><p> </p><p>Niece is 8 now. While she will say what her Mommy tells her, she also pipes up (on her own) that Mommy told her to say it and that really X happened. Has upset her mother with this for years. Does it if Daddy or anyone else tries to get her to lie also. </p><p> </p><p>I very much see this as not about gfgbro but about niece, so that is how I am not being torn up by it. The only CPS investigation we know of is the one when I reported. It was 7 yrs (niece was about 1yo) ago and bro went through the entire program at the domestic violence place even though his then wife only went to about 2 or 3 weeks worth of sessions and therapy there. He actually went through a second round (they do it in X weeks, then you have completed it but can continue if you want. He continued for at least the 2nd one because he felt he had a temper problem and didn't want to act like that with his child - knows how our dad's anger problems were hard on us, esp him.</p><p> </p><p>ExSIL always told everyone that she did not ask me to call (she did, flat out, used those words = need you to call CPS because he threw a lit jar candle at me and neice was near me) then a couple of years ago I went to drop something off to her for my mom and she was laughing at me about how I "fell for it" and made the report. She was drunk as she told me this, but she admitted that she did it so that later she could use it to say he was abusive and get custody away from him. She said that she hated wehn her older boys went to live with their dad and wanted to make sure that her daughter never had that choice to leave her. By getting ME to report it she got a report from someone with a clean record and no abuse problems, plus it was a member of his family and said his family was against him. She also laughed because it made me the "bad child" in my parents' eyes and then they would give her more stuff and she could replace me in their family. She was very clear that this was all in her mind way back then. It worked, and my mother has NEVER believed that exsil asked me, that she wanted to replace me in the family, etc....</p><p> </p><p>I am willing to bet that exSIL's father has offered to buy her a house and support her if she and her daughter come and live in his little podunk town. Her sister has this relationship with him already, sans her kids - daddy pays for all her booze and bills as she is also a raging alcoholic. Both of them were sexually abused as kids and I would bet her dad was one of the abusers - hence why he pushes to have her bring niece to see him. It is one reason niece is in many activities - makes it harder to take her there for a weekend, Know what I mean?? He is really not right - creepy.</p><p> </p><p>As for DNA, it would be an emotional blow. ExSIL was NEVER faithful. When preg with niece she worked in a hospital as a nurse. She "traded" oral sex for an rx for a throat infection from a doctor - and told me about it. She thought it was funny. She has had a lot of boyfriends when niece is around - but if gfgbro has a female stop by for a few minutes she has a screaming fit about his having "ho's" around her daughter and how it is against her religion. </p><p> </p><p>I just pray that she doesn't get full custody. I am willing to bet that niece is not on time for school at any point when her mom takes her to school. Also bet that medications are not refilled on time because they are not given properly if at all. ExSIL is a witch with a b and many other things. My apologies to all the female dogs in the world.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 411254, member: 1233"] I don't know if her sons will speak against her or not. They sure were open with me and when she was born were very worried that exSIL would treat niece the way they were treated. His attorney is a shark. My mom hired her when exSIL first left him - because she is the best in our area and mom didn't want exSIL to get her. Other top atty for this kind of thing is my husband's exfiance. She is awesome and will NOT take a parent like exSIL as a client. She will drop clients like that or will do all she can to make sure they do not get custody. She also has been known to be appointed as the child's atty in disputed custody cases. Niece is 8 now. While she will say what her Mommy tells her, she also pipes up (on her own) that Mommy told her to say it and that really X happened. Has upset her mother with this for years. Does it if Daddy or anyone else tries to get her to lie also. I very much see this as not about gfgbro but about niece, so that is how I am not being torn up by it. The only CPS investigation we know of is the one when I reported. It was 7 yrs (niece was about 1yo) ago and bro went through the entire program at the domestic violence place even though his then wife only went to about 2 or 3 weeks worth of sessions and therapy there. He actually went through a second round (they do it in X weeks, then you have completed it but can continue if you want. He continued for at least the 2nd one because he felt he had a temper problem and didn't want to act like that with his child - knows how our dad's anger problems were hard on us, esp him. ExSIL always told everyone that she did not ask me to call (she did, flat out, used those words = need you to call CPS because he threw a lit jar candle at me and neice was near me) then a couple of years ago I went to drop something off to her for my mom and she was laughing at me about how I "fell for it" and made the report. She was drunk as she told me this, but she admitted that she did it so that later she could use it to say he was abusive and get custody away from him. She said that she hated wehn her older boys went to live with their dad and wanted to make sure that her daughter never had that choice to leave her. By getting ME to report it she got a report from someone with a clean record and no abuse problems, plus it was a member of his family and said his family was against him. She also laughed because it made me the "bad child" in my parents' eyes and then they would give her more stuff and she could replace me in their family. She was very clear that this was all in her mind way back then. It worked, and my mother has NEVER believed that exsil asked me, that she wanted to replace me in the family, etc.... I am willing to bet that exSIL's father has offered to buy her a house and support her if she and her daughter come and live in his little podunk town. Her sister has this relationship with him already, sans her kids - daddy pays for all her booze and bills as she is also a raging alcoholic. Both of them were sexually abused as kids and I would bet her dad was one of the abusers - hence why he pushes to have her bring niece to see him. It is one reason niece is in many activities - makes it harder to take her there for a weekend, Know what I mean?? He is really not right - creepy. As for DNA, it would be an emotional blow. ExSIL was NEVER faithful. When preg with niece she worked in a hospital as a nurse. She "traded" oral sex for an rx for a throat infection from a doctor - and told me about it. She thought it was funny. She has had a lot of boyfriends when niece is around - but if gfgbro has a female stop by for a few minutes she has a screaming fit about his having "ho's" around her daughter and how it is against her religion. I just pray that she doesn't get full custody. I am willing to bet that niece is not on time for school at any point when her mom takes her to school. Also bet that medications are not refilled on time because they are not given properly if at all. ExSIL is a witch with a b and many other things. My apologies to all the female dogs in the world. [/QUOTE]
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