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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 411632" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Hey Susie* </p><p> </p><p>I remember you talking and posting several times about your brother and his daughter. I don't ever remember you remarking about his relationship with her other than to say you felt he was a jerk and you were sorry that she had to witness what he was doing to you. Other than that I can't think of a single instance where you've referred to him as an abusive Father. </p><p> </p><p>That being said - I know a couple things about living with an abusive parent in the home and I'll say this much. Usually (typically) if one parent comes forward with accusations 'this' strong? It's a red flag to court officials or CPS and there will be a study done. Most of it will center around your nice and honey, there isn't any way that the questions your niece will be asked can be faked by a child's answers. on the other hand - and I'm just saying so don't take this the wrong way - After years of abuse to himself it is possible that your brother isn't the easiest person to live with, and witnessing yelling, and mental abuse to his wife is considered abuse to a child so perhaps that's included HOWEVER I am more inclined to believe that if you know for a fact that your EXIL is the abuser? She's crying wolf first to cover her own rear for some reason and this is how she's doing it. There is more going on than you realize I'm afraid. Either he's done something that she didn't like or he didn't do something she wanted him to and she's trying to get back at him or maybe she's just plain batty - but if it is just a case of she's gone off her nut? When they interview your niece? It will all come out, and it will backfire against her Mom and filing false child abuse charges in any state is a huge charge. Then it's going to be on her. So I wouldn't get too fired up about this just yet. You may also have to consider that you are going to be called in as a character witness for or against your brother if it does go to family court - something to think about. I would not think it'd get that far, but you never know. </p><p> </p><p>Just thinking out loud. </p><p> </p><p>Sending hugs </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 411632, member: 4964"] Hey Susie* I remember you talking and posting several times about your brother and his daughter. I don't ever remember you remarking about his relationship with her other than to say you felt he was a jerk and you were sorry that she had to witness what he was doing to you. Other than that I can't think of a single instance where you've referred to him as an abusive Father. That being said - I know a couple things about living with an abusive parent in the home and I'll say this much. Usually (typically) if one parent comes forward with accusations 'this' strong? It's a red flag to court officials or CPS and there will be a study done. Most of it will center around your nice and honey, there isn't any way that the questions your niece will be asked can be faked by a child's answers. on the other hand - and I'm just saying so don't take this the wrong way - After years of abuse to himself it is possible that your brother isn't the easiest person to live with, and witnessing yelling, and mental abuse to his wife is considered abuse to a child so perhaps that's included HOWEVER I am more inclined to believe that if you know for a fact that your EXIL is the abuser? She's crying wolf first to cover her own rear for some reason and this is how she's doing it. There is more going on than you realize I'm afraid. Either he's done something that she didn't like or he didn't do something she wanted him to and she's trying to get back at him or maybe she's just plain batty - but if it is just a case of she's gone off her nut? When they interview your niece? It will all come out, and it will backfire against her Mom and filing false child abuse charges in any state is a huge charge. Then it's going to be on her. So I wouldn't get too fired up about this just yet. You may also have to consider that you are going to be called in as a character witness for or against your brother if it does go to family court - something to think about. I would not think it'd get that far, but you never know. Just thinking out loud. Sending hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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