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Extended family... I can't do it anymore!
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<blockquote data-quote="saving grace" data-source="post: 110478" data-attributes="member: 1538"><p>I am sorry you had such a tough time. It sounds to me like you are "owning" your sons addiction. This is his problem and his embarrasment. Just tell the truth and follow up with I would rather not talk about it. You shouldnt have to carry this burden with you, worrying about who knows or who is saying what. If girlfriend lied to her son then its her responsibilty to keep the lie not yours. </p><p></p><p>Let it go, stop focusing on him and focus on yourself. I know how disappointed you are that you missed his call then to find out that he has been calling girlfriend but if you ask me calling her 6 times in one day is not good, he is not taking his recovery seriously if he is constantly calling home. If I were you I would not be so available to him. DO NOT wait by the phone for his calls. Tell him to call you once a week or write a letter. I know for a fact that they discourage phone calls. </p><p></p><p>Good Luck</p><p>Grace</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="saving grace, post: 110478, member: 1538"] I am sorry you had such a tough time. It sounds to me like you are "owning" your sons addiction. This is his problem and his embarrasment. Just tell the truth and follow up with I would rather not talk about it. You shouldnt have to carry this burden with you, worrying about who knows or who is saying what. If girlfriend lied to her son then its her responsibilty to keep the lie not yours. Let it go, stop focusing on him and focus on yourself. I know how disappointed you are that you missed his call then to find out that he has been calling girlfriend but if you ask me calling her 6 times in one day is not good, he is not taking his recovery seriously if he is constantly calling home. If I were you I would not be so available to him. DO NOT wait by the phone for his calls. Tell him to call you once a week or write a letter. I know for a fact that they discourage phone calls. Good Luck Grace [/QUOTE]
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