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<blockquote data-quote="jmama45" data-source="post: 110907" data-attributes="member: 4450"><p>Well the family there is not near just addiction. My mom enables them beyond crazy. IE. She has a great pension, WORKS FULL TIME and makes great money AND has SSI, yet had no money to xmas shop because they <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> her dry. Both Bro's, one not working and one is filing bankrupt yet can go on weekend trips. One got arrested last week and mom paid 1000 to get him out! I cant tell you the loans she has taken for them.</p><p></p><p>My point is mom and I do nto agree on what we will and will not do for out kids. I have limits, she doesn't. She lets drug addicts live with her and takes care of them, I don't.</p><p></p><p>Also, since I see them once a year, no calls all year, no relationship to speak of, no like they are gonna call and check on me or difficult child... I feel telling them anything more than that difficult child is in a treatment center, is just going to be something for them to gossip about while they are at the bar. It makes me ill to know that they will do that, but they will. They have no sense of what to say when or to whom. I have no use for them <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/frown.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":frown:" title="frown :frown:" data-shortname=":frown:" /> </p><p></p><p>I dont know what they all have and frankly dont care. They are beyond diagnosis's in my opinion, at this point they all could be said to have something, who knows.</p><p></p><p>Ya I am over them, over their <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> and their uncaring spirits.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jmama45, post: 110907, member: 4450"] Well the family there is not near just addiction. My mom enables them beyond crazy. IE. She has a great pension, WORKS FULL TIME and makes great money AND has SSI, yet had no money to xmas shop because they :censored: her dry. Both Bro's, one not working and one is filing bankrupt yet can go on weekend trips. One got arrested last week and mom paid 1000 to get him out! I cant tell you the loans she has taken for them. My point is mom and I do nto agree on what we will and will not do for out kids. I have limits, she doesn't. She lets drug addicts live with her and takes care of them, I don't. Also, since I see them once a year, no calls all year, no relationship to speak of, no like they are gonna call and check on me or difficult child... I feel telling them anything more than that difficult child is in a treatment center, is just going to be something for them to gossip about while they are at the bar. It makes me ill to know that they will do that, but they will. They have no sense of what to say when or to whom. I have no use for them :frown: I dont know what they all have and frankly dont care. They are beyond diagnosis's in my opinion, at this point they all could be said to have something, who knows. Ya I am over them, over their :censored2: and their uncaring spirits. [/QUOTE]
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