My difficult child was supposedly homeless after having a blow up with girlie and she was sent to detox. He sent me and email about a month ago asking for money saying he was in another town. I ignored it. Then he sent another last week saying he was in AA and had a sponsor, but couldn't find a job so he has to move to a bigger town. I agreed to buy a bus ticket for him and I told him I was happy he was in AA, he does need to find a job. Then I get another email saying he was taking the A+ certification the 13th, he has been studying for the test. He is vague about wheather he is in a shelter or a residential facility, but he said he had to be out today. He was going to get the info for the bus ticket and let me know. Then his sister emails me about him, she has been worried, but says he is posting on facebook. OK, what shelter has Net and computers that you can access any time you want? how did he pay for the exam? how is he getting to the college at least an hour and a half away, maybe more by bus, to take the exam? I am certain that he is back with difficult child girlie. But I am surprised that the mother would let him move back in after the last fiasco. He is so excited that he has passed the exam, it is good news. BUT he still does not comprehend that HE HAS NO JOB! It's his life, that's fine! He knows that no one in his family will have anything to do with girlie and she has cut off all ties with his friends, one a friend from about 4yo. Just do NOT ask me for money!! I have accepted the hard fact that my son will never think the way I do, but he has to accept the fact that I will not support him. Not having a job is something I can not wrap my head around!!!