But who here is really all that surprised by that? Our (mine and husband's) part went well, we told them how she shuts down and deflects questions and manipulates. When she came in, she refused to answer certain questions with us in the room. They were safety related ie did she have a suicide plan, any attempts if yes how many and she said she refused to answer, and it was stupid. So we ended it, and her social worker looked at her and said "well if you do not want to be honest as to why you are here, and take ownership of certain things you will not be getting out of here anytime soon." So, she was peeved. I went down to her room to help her carry her clothes and blanket down, and she said "I really screwed that up" I for a second thought "wow she got it!" nah. not so much. She was blaming me and being nasty during visitation tonight. So, I got up and left. She thinks she will be leveling up tomorrow. Ha ha! Her nurse practitioner called and told me that she is going to recommend that she move her down a level!! I told her to go for it. difficult child is going to be sooo mad. She can't participate in group, and she has to use a crayon to write with. Also, no spoons or forks!! Oh she has to sit at her desk with and aide and work on her issues one on one. All.Day. Can we guess how visitation will go? I am guessing we will be there about 10 minutes and she will be so snarly and snarky that we will last maybe 10 minutes.