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Family of Origin (FOO) Support Thread Part 2
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 662767" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>That's okay, Copa. You are posting about it. It isn't a shaming secret, anymore. The pain of what is happening with and to your child is real. The danger is real. </p><p></p><p>It's all really happening, right now, to someone you love more than you have loved anyone in all of your life.</p><p></p><p>There is no way to survive it.</p><p></p><p>Remember on Parent Emeritus Copa, when COM posts about a tool box? These times, when we literally cannot face what is...that is when we open that tool box. Even if we don't find anything in there this time to help us, signaling to our brains and our grief centers and all those hopeless darknesses within us that we are trying, that we do want to feel better...that can help, Copa.</p><p></p><p>One second, one breath, at a time.</p><p></p><p>Back to the tool box, to the quote box, to the place that we cry in shocked and wordless bereavement.</p><p></p><p>Elie Wiesel wrote something to this effect: Trying to describe some things in words profanes their sacred horror.</p><p></p><p>That is where you are now, Copa.</p><p></p><p>One second, one minute, one breath at a time.</p><p></p><p>There is no way to survive it.</p><p></p><p>So we accept.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Copa, that part about the brain transplant was funny.</p><p></p><p>And I really liked the half dream state, half-woken, half wrong comment, too.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 662767, member: 17461"] That's okay, Copa. You are posting about it. It isn't a shaming secret, anymore. The pain of what is happening with and to your child is real. The danger is real. It's all really happening, right now, to someone you love more than you have loved anyone in all of your life. There is no way to survive it. Remember on Parent Emeritus Copa, when COM posts about a tool box? These times, when we literally cannot face what is...that is when we open that tool box. Even if we don't find anything in there this time to help us, signaling to our brains and our grief centers and all those hopeless darknesses within us that we are trying, that we do want to feel better...that can help, Copa. One second, one breath, at a time. Back to the tool box, to the quote box, to the place that we cry in shocked and wordless bereavement. Elie Wiesel wrote something to this effect: Trying to describe some things in words profanes their sacred horror. That is where you are now, Copa. One second, one minute, one breath at a time. There is no way to survive it. So we accept. Copa, that part about the brain transplant was funny. And I really liked the half dream state, half-woken, half wrong comment, too. :O) Cedar [/QUOTE]
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