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Family of Origin (FOO) Support Thread Part 2
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 662814" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Such kind words. Thank you.</p><p></p><p>I cold never ever divide/conquer my kids, as we were in FOO. I didn't have a choice but to take a hard stand. My grandmother was plain morally wrong. As was my mother for doing what she asked her to do, which she KNEW was wrong.</p><p></p><p>In spite of the problems my mother had with HER mother (grandmother) she always did what her mother wanted, right or wrong.</p><p></p><p>And that's w here all of us can get into trouble. This "if your mama don't love ya ain't nobody gonna love ya" mentality is far and wide. And so untrue. We all have lots of love. We just don't have mama love. They didn't have it to give. The chose to be how t hey were raised. It was not our fauilts they couldn't love the normal way (in "normal" I mean as most people do...the average). And we chose to love our loved ones with all our hearts. </p><p></p><p>They can't take t hat away from us.</p><p></p><p>Reminds me of an old, old song "They can't take that awa-ay, they can't take that away, they can't take that away from me!" I was in an adult choir and that was one of our songs. A lovely song.</p><p></p><p>My real name is so ugly. Some know it. It's Pamela. Ick. I am called Pam. The name sounds old and has never made a comeback and my mother chose it. I so hate my name and always have. My brother has an ugly name too. My sister is the only one with a pretty name.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 662814, member: 1550"] Such kind words. Thank you. I cold never ever divide/conquer my kids, as we were in FOO. I didn't have a choice but to take a hard stand. My grandmother was plain morally wrong. As was my mother for doing what she asked her to do, which she KNEW was wrong. In spite of the problems my mother had with HER mother (grandmother) she always did what her mother wanted, right or wrong. And that's w here all of us can get into trouble. This "if your mama don't love ya ain't nobody gonna love ya" mentality is far and wide. And so untrue. We all have lots of love. We just don't have mama love. They didn't have it to give. The chose to be how t hey were raised. It was not our fauilts they couldn't love the normal way (in "normal" I mean as most people do...the average). And we chose to love our loved ones with all our hearts. They can't take t hat away from us. Reminds me of an old, old song "They can't take that awa-ay, they can't take that away, they can't take that away from me!" I was in an adult choir and that was one of our songs. A lovely song. My real name is so ugly. Some know it. It's Pamela. Ick. I am called Pam. The name sounds old and has never made a comeback and my mother chose it. I so hate my name and always have. My brother has an ugly name too. My sister is the only one with a pretty name. [/QUOTE]
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