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Family of Origin (FOO) Support Thread Part 2
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 662915" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I'm sorry for the hurt of it, Copa. I read your sentence, "I am going to get my boy.", and my heart sang for yours. Still Copa, in your happiness at being able to give to your son, in your generosity, in that you never once looked at any of it with irritation but only joy...there you see who you are, Copa.</p><p></p><p>There too, you know the taste of what your son's pain and confusion cost <em>you.</em></p><p></p><p>Joy.</p><p></p><p>The joy every mother should feel when she is with her child.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>It feels like betrayal, like being stabbed with a long, thin knife that is razor sharp <em>from behind</em>, by a coward.</p><p></p><p><em>Your own son, Copa!</em></p><p></p><p>And mine. And Seeking's, in that they each have gone behind our backs to family. <em>What kinds of sons do such terrible things to their own mothers.</em></p><p></p><p><em>What kinds of sons commit those kinds of betrayal.</em></p><p></p><p><em></em></p><p><em></em></p><p>Ha! Copa, you are so freaking funny. You must throw out hilarious asides as you go about your real life.</p><p><em></em></p><p><em>"Extreme circumstances." </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/rofl.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":rofl:" title="rofl :rofl:" data-shortname=":rofl:" /></em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>Good for M. Man to man; D H says two males cannot live in the same house together. Especially when the house is his and the younger male is rebellious and thinks he could take the older male.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>D H says that is too tempting to the older male.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>Sorry Copa, for the italics.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>You are Son's mother. His loyalty should be to you. That is why friends or family believe them when they say terrible things about us, about their own parents. Because normal people do not betray their mothers. Our friends and family see the words our adult children say as cries for help.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>This is the final betrayal.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>It is worse when the family member or friend finally gets the nature of the game. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>Nothing is ever healed. The adult child comes out of it looking so horribly bad. And there we are...the mothers, who still love them whatever they have done.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>No. That is a threat. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>And that was your mother's broom that she chose and touched and used.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>A necessary means of anger management or...what, Copa?</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>roar</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>Shame on Son.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>How did it happen Copa?</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>***</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>I need to start another response. This one is stuck in italics and it's cramping my style.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>:O)</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>Cedar</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em></em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 662915, member: 17461"] I'm sorry for the hurt of it, Copa. I read your sentence, "I am going to get my boy.", and my heart sang for yours. Still Copa, in your happiness at being able to give to your son, in your generosity, in that you never once looked at any of it with irritation but only joy...there you see who you are, Copa. There too, you know the taste of what your son's pain and confusion cost [I]you.[/I] Joy. The joy every mother should feel when she is with her child. It feels like betrayal, like being stabbed with a long, thin knife that is razor sharp [I]from behind[/I], by a coward. [I]Your own son, Copa![/I] And mine. And Seeking's, in that they each have gone behind our backs to family. [I]What kinds of sons do such terrible things to their own mothers.[/I] [I]What kinds of sons commit those kinds of betrayal.[/I] [I] [/I] Ha! Copa, you are so freaking funny. You must throw out hilarious asides as you go about your real life. [I] "Extreme circumstances." :rofl: Good for M. Man to man; D H says two males cannot live in the same house together. Especially when the house is his and the younger male is rebellious and thinks he could take the older male. D H says that is too tempting to the older male. Sorry Copa, for the italics. You are Son's mother. His loyalty should be to you. That is why friends or family believe them when they say terrible things about us, about their own parents. Because normal people do not betray their mothers. Our friends and family see the words our adult children say as cries for help. This is the final betrayal. It is worse when the family member or friend finally gets the nature of the game. Nothing is ever healed. The adult child comes out of it looking so horribly bad. And there we are...the mothers, who still love them whatever they have done. No. That is a threat. And that was your mother's broom that she chose and touched and used. A necessary means of anger management or...what, Copa? roar Shame on Son. How did it happen Copa? *** I need to start another response. This one is stuck in italics and it's cramping my style. :O) Cedar [/I] [/QUOTE]
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