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Family of Origin (FOO) Support Thread Part 2
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 663044" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Seduction is the word that comes to mind.</p><p></p><p>The Cedar they want is different than the one you have chosen. They could care less what you want. They want the Old Cedar and they try to seduce her back.</p><p></p><p>The sense of self-sabotage is within you. You are the only one who cares that you have a choice between old and revised Cedars, and that if you choose old, it would be self-sabotage and a betrayal of self.</p><p></p><p>Believe me your sister and mother could care less that you act with integrity towards yourself. They will never understand. Nor is it necessary they do so.</p><p></p><p>All they are trying to do is to get the attention of old Cedar. Unfortunately, this causes a great deal of discomfort in you because old Cedar is still you too.</p><p></p><p>As I write this I recognize that this may be what is fueling the resentment and bad behavior of my son towards me (I started a new thread on PE). He could care less whether it hurts me to be his old Mom. He much preferred her, thank you. And he is doing whatever he can to punish revised Mom, as a result.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 663044, member: 18958"] Seduction is the word that comes to mind. The Cedar they want is different than the one you have chosen. They could care less what you want. They want the Old Cedar and they try to seduce her back. The sense of self-sabotage is within you. You are the only one who cares that you have a choice between old and revised Cedars, and that if you choose old, it would be self-sabotage and a betrayal of self. Believe me your sister and mother could care less that you act with integrity towards yourself. They will never understand. Nor is it necessary they do so. All they are trying to do is to get the attention of old Cedar. Unfortunately, this causes a great deal of discomfort in you because old Cedar is still you too. As I write this I recognize that this may be what is fueling the resentment and bad behavior of my son towards me (I started a new thread on PE). He could care less whether it hurts me to be his old Mom. He much preferred her, thank you. And he is doing whatever he can to punish revised Mom, as a result. [/QUOTE]
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