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Family of Origin (FOO) Support Thread Part 2
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 663681" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>You will come to your own decision about this, Copa. My take: Talk to your child, your son, this person you love like you will never love again, every opportunity you have. Talk to him like his mother: Do this for me. Become the man I raised you to be. You can beat this. You can do this. You have a purpose in this world. You are here for a reason. I love you. Call me soon. I am following this course of action because I love you and I believe this will help us both. Addiction is a terrible thing and I am so sorry this happened to you and to me. I wanted (whatever it is) for us. For you, and for me. You are my son. I love you. You can do this. Do this for me.</p><p></p><p>It is not about what he says back, Copa. Maybe this is the time we have to love them from a bottomless heart. Your son must respect you if he is to respect himself. You are the standard setter. You are the mother. If you allow him to treat you badly he will <em>because of the addiction.</em> The addiction is the enemy. Not your son. Not you. The addiction will try to come between you. Be stronger. Be sure and steady and strong. Treatment. Another chance. A million chances and one will take.</p><p></p><p>D H is returning.</p><p></p><p>I am sneaking this post.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p><p></p><p>For heaven's sake. I went to all the trouble of sneaking out here to make this post last night and didn't hit "send".</p><p></p><p>Here it still is this morning.</p><p></p><p>I will post it now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 663681, member: 17461"] You will come to your own decision about this, Copa. My take: Talk to your child, your son, this person you love like you will never love again, every opportunity you have. Talk to him like his mother: Do this for me. Become the man I raised you to be. You can beat this. You can do this. You have a purpose in this world. You are here for a reason. I love you. Call me soon. I am following this course of action because I love you and I believe this will help us both. Addiction is a terrible thing and I am so sorry this happened to you and to me. I wanted (whatever it is) for us. For you, and for me. You are my son. I love you. You can do this. Do this for me. It is not about what he says back, Copa. Maybe this is the time we have to love them from a bottomless heart. Your son must respect you if he is to respect himself. You are the standard setter. You are the mother. If you allow him to treat you badly he will [I]because of the addiction.[/I] The addiction is the enemy. Not your son. Not you. The addiction will try to come between you. Be stronger. Be sure and steady and strong. Treatment. Another chance. A million chances and one will take. D H is returning. I am sneaking this post. :O) Cedar For heaven's sake. I went to all the trouble of sneaking out here to make this post last night and didn't hit "send". Here it still is this morning. I will post it now. [/QUOTE]
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