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Family of Origin (FOO) Support Thread Part 2
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 663931" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Cop a, this second man therapist is another bad fit for u as he would be for me. I suspect he's an old time thinker with Freud still on his brain. He thinks analyzing ad nauseam while you listen to his guesstimate and non scientific interpretations will help you after of course you ha e paid him for years. I say he's full of it and his therapeutic method is outdated and in my opinion useless. Is he older?</p><p></p><p>I will give you food for thought that in no way means you have to think that my idea is the one for you. But ill offer an alternative to him and his style.</p><p></p><p>You can try something new that actual research dictates is very effective. You can stop talking to Mr. Gloom and doom entirely. He isn't teaching you new ways of thinking; of coping. He's letting you vent then giving you his opinion, which could be wrong. Tell him good bye.</p><p>Find a female therapist who does cognitive behavior therapy and you will learn about things that keep people stuck, such as thinking errors and new ways of seeing the world and your own problems. You will be taught how to cope and spared the therapists lame opinion. You will get a different type of help. In my case I got much better quite quickly.</p><p></p><p>Droning on and on for years to get to the root cause may never lead to the root cause and may gain us some insight but it doesn't teach us how to handle that insight.</p><p></p><p>Be good to you and try a new approach. And good luck with the dentist. I don't like them...ugh.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 663931, member: 1550"] Cop a, this second man therapist is another bad fit for u as he would be for me. I suspect he's an old time thinker with Freud still on his brain. He thinks analyzing ad nauseam while you listen to his guesstimate and non scientific interpretations will help you after of course you ha e paid him for years. I say he's full of it and his therapeutic method is outdated and in my opinion useless. Is he older? I will give you food for thought that in no way means you have to think that my idea is the one for you. But ill offer an alternative to him and his style. You can try something new that actual research dictates is very effective. You can stop talking to Mr. Gloom and doom entirely. He isn't teaching you new ways of thinking; of coping. He's letting you vent then giving you his opinion, which could be wrong. Tell him good bye. Find a female therapist who does cognitive behavior therapy and you will learn about things that keep people stuck, such as thinking errors and new ways of seeing the world and your own problems. You will be taught how to cope and spared the therapists lame opinion. You will get a different type of help. In my case I got much better quite quickly. Droning on and on for years to get to the root cause may never lead to the root cause and may gain us some insight but it doesn't teach us how to handle that insight. Be good to you and try a new approach. And good luck with the dentist. I don't like them...ugh. [/QUOTE]
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