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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 664180" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>No one likes Donald Trump either, Copa.</p><p></p><p>But they respect him.</p><p></p><p>What you won, in my way of seeing, is reclamation of the option of choice. That is what they were taking away from you. The option of choice.</p><p></p><p>As I read about the manner of their attack on you, I thought of my sister.</p><p></p><p>Remember the Ring of Thorns she and her compatriots prayed against me? Which was, if ever I heard of one, actually a preying against? Or that she walks with the Lord and so, is neither wrong nor unkind nor foolish nor...ill?</p><p></p><p>This is that place of uncertainty, Copa. There is no right answer. Each choice will have its effects. </p><p></p><p>I will say this. D H does not care that a person likes him or does not like him. Like does not enter into it. D H wants privacy and allows it to be invaded like a lion with a thorn in its paw. He saw my sister for who she was immediately. He saw my mother. He told me what he saw. I did not believe. Lion with a thorn in its paw until, in their increasing arrogance after my father's death, he took himself out of the picture. I was free to do as I chose. He was muzzled still, but bore it with the thorn in his paw.</p><p></p><p>Now he is unmuzzled.</p><p></p><p>He is free.</p><p></p><p><em>Who is it who is leaving you vulnerable now Copa? Whose thorn. Business is business.</em></p><p></p><p><em></em></p><p><em></em></p><p>M is correct.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>As we all are, Copa.</p><p></p><p>Stop being ashamed of your strength. This is a betrayal of self through our self talk. I think. And I am just a person online, right? But I hear you on one level and I hear you on the other level, where the words that hurt, that call you to question your decency (and which should never have been employed in a business deal <em>but which are, in every business deal, every day.</em></p><p></p><p>That's okay, Copa. We are learning to heal our broken places. In a very real way, this is a miracle, this opportunity for healing.</p><p></p><p>Can you strive only for steady state, Copa? Just like we learn to do with our kids. </p><p></p><p>Steady state.</p><p></p><p>There is your brain.</p><p></p><p>Did you see Dr Ben Carson's performance in the Presidential debate last night? That is how we need to learn to be present to uncertainty, too.</p><p></p><p>Just like that.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 664180, member: 17461"] No one likes Donald Trump either, Copa. But they respect him. What you won, in my way of seeing, is reclamation of the option of choice. That is what they were taking away from you. The option of choice. As I read about the manner of their attack on you, I thought of my sister. Remember the Ring of Thorns she and her compatriots prayed against me? Which was, if ever I heard of one, actually a preying against? Or that she walks with the Lord and so, is neither wrong nor unkind nor foolish nor...ill? This is that place of uncertainty, Copa. There is no right answer. Each choice will have its effects. I will say this. D H does not care that a person likes him or does not like him. Like does not enter into it. D H wants privacy and allows it to be invaded like a lion with a thorn in its paw. He saw my sister for who she was immediately. He saw my mother. He told me what he saw. I did not believe. Lion with a thorn in its paw until, in their increasing arrogance after my father's death, he took himself out of the picture. I was free to do as I chose. He was muzzled still, but bore it with the thorn in his paw. Now he is unmuzzled. He is free. [I]Who is it who is leaving you vulnerable now Copa? Whose thorn. Business is business.[/I] [I] [/I] M is correct. As we all are, Copa. Stop being ashamed of your strength. This is a betrayal of self through our self talk. I think. And I am just a person online, right? But I hear you on one level and I hear you on the other level, where the words that hurt, that call you to question your decency (and which should never have been employed in a business deal [I]but which are, in every business deal, every day.[/I] That's okay, Copa. We are learning to heal our broken places. In a very real way, this is a miracle, this opportunity for healing. Can you strive only for steady state, Copa? Just like we learn to do with our kids. Steady state. There is your brain. Did you see Dr Ben Carson's performance in the Presidential debate last night? That is how we need to learn to be present to uncertainty, too. Just like that. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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