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Family of Origin (FOO) Support Thread Part 2
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 664872" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>No, Copa. <em>Nor would you want it to. </em>This ending, this way it was, for her and for you, is your honor. It could have been any of a thousand other ways. It is not easy for you. There were many things accomplished but oh, so many left undone, or that you would do differently or that you wish had never been just as they were. It cannot have been easy for you, those first moments of being alone. But you are strong, Copa. </p><p></p><p>It doesn't have to be easy.</p><p></p><p>This is truly what happened: At the end of your mother's life, you were there. You were with her through it, Copa and you truly mourn her passing <em>and you learned the measure of love and so few of us receive that gift.</em> </p><p></p><p>You are strong enough, Copa.</p><p></p><p>It will take the time it takes, and Serenity and IC and pasa and nerfherder and SuZir and I and all of us will be here when you post. Sooner or later, we will be right here. You aren't alone, this does not have to be another ending.</p><p></p><p>You are doing well, Copa.</p><p></p><p>Just look how you are standing right up to the pain. <em>You couldn't do that before. Not in this way, Copa.</em></p><p></p><p>You held your mother as she died. On every level, there is more coming, more has happened, more has changed, than you know.</p><p></p><p>I have been waiting, knowing you wanted to be done, knowing you might not be ready, knowing you might. You are that close Copa and for a time, you may find the work we've done here distasteful.</p><p></p><p>We will be waiting, reading and waiting, living and celebrating and growing Copa, just like you will be, too.</p><p></p><p>Right here, or nearby; within the reach of a day or two.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 664872, member: 17461"] No, Copa. [I]Nor would you want it to. [/I]This ending, this way it was, for her and for you, is your honor. It could have been any of a thousand other ways. It is not easy for you. There were many things accomplished but oh, so many left undone, or that you would do differently or that you wish had never been just as they were. It cannot have been easy for you, those first moments of being alone. But you are strong, Copa. It doesn't have to be easy. This is truly what happened: At the end of your mother's life, you were there. You were with her through it, Copa and you truly mourn her passing [I]and you learned the measure of love and so few of us receive that gift.[/I] You are strong enough, Copa. It will take the time it takes, and Serenity and IC and pasa and nerfherder and SuZir and I and all of us will be here when you post. Sooner or later, we will be right here. You aren't alone, this does not have to be another ending. You are doing well, Copa. Just look how you are standing right up to the pain. [I]You couldn't do that before. Not in this way, Copa.[/I] You held your mother as she died. On every level, there is more coming, more has happened, more has changed, than you know. I have been waiting, knowing you wanted to be done, knowing you might not be ready, knowing you might. You are that close Copa and for a time, you may find the work we've done here distasteful. We will be waiting, reading and waiting, living and celebrating and growing Copa, just like you will be, too. Right here, or nearby; within the reach of a day or two. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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