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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 254795" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p>I am sorry things are tough at the moment. I am a big one for family therapy despite not a good experience with it.</p><p></p><p>I believe the first step is simply to learn how to problem solve , resolve conflicts using non emotive examples. Once we understand the process , it will be easier for the therapist to facilitate problem solving.</p><p></p><p>I like using CPS - colaborative problem solving - Ross Greene , because the focus is putting ' concerns' on the table before discussing solutions. Often people present their concerns in terms of solutions - I want ... . When solutions are presented without addressing concerns we end up negotiating or dueling solutions rather than trying to reach mutually satisfying solutions.</p><p></p><p>I would also share this check list with the therapist so we could work on missing skills and unsolved problems</p><p></p><p>I agree that he should have a PO , I would try for a mentor or older brother. Having decent friends and peers is also important , maybe a peer mentor</p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 254795, member: 10"] Hi, I am sorry things are tough at the moment. I am a big one for family therapy despite not a good experience with it. I believe the first step is simply to learn how to problem solve , resolve conflicts using non emotive examples. Once we understand the process , it will be easier for the therapist to facilitate problem solving. I like using CPS - colaborative problem solving - Ross Greene , because the focus is putting ' concerns' on the table before discussing solutions. Often people present their concerns in terms of solutions - I want ... . When solutions are presented without addressing concerns we end up negotiating or dueling solutions rather than trying to reach mutually satisfying solutions. I would also share this check list with the therapist so we could work on missing skills and unsolved problems I agree that he should have a PO , I would try for a mentor or older brother. Having decent friends and peers is also important , maybe a peer mentor Allan [/QUOTE]
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