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Fearful that my difficult child has become the Identified Patient
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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 625782"><p>Your welcome. I was thinking about my situation and what your saying. I do believe it can effect our difficult child more than we might think. I know I was so stressed after 5 years plus of how bad my sons issues were, I did argue back. The medications have helped which we have to get him back on ( coughing with a nebulizer so mixed medications bad idea) and for our house, we cant really correct whats been done, just to change how we deal with things and try to get our difficult child to change with us. I tell my kids, ok, we all made mistakes and I didnt know how to handle it, ha.. we still are learning how to handle it! But, the more and more we encourage their good behavior and start all our kids, even ourselves in new activities maybe that will help? Then, they can see that they each have a new great out look on life. Volunteering if thats even possible would be a great help. I know Im nervous for my son to work with the animals and people because he does get mad out of nowhere and he cant always hold back...he starts next week ( hes never hurt an animal but still)</p><p></p><p>I know its harder for them when families are not on the same page too. Again...like mine. But, like I tell my kids we are all different for a reason, some people can handle things better than others. They are oversensitive at times and I just try to build up their self esteem. Look into life coaches/ positive people who do this for a living, Im sure there are some out there. I am sure you have already been encouraging them <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Its hard! Keep us updated and hugs!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 625782"] Your welcome. I was thinking about my situation and what your saying. I do believe it can effect our difficult child more than we might think. I know I was so stressed after 5 years plus of how bad my sons issues were, I did argue back. The medications have helped which we have to get him back on ( coughing with a nebulizer so mixed medications bad idea) and for our house, we cant really correct whats been done, just to change how we deal with things and try to get our difficult child to change with us. I tell my kids, ok, we all made mistakes and I didnt know how to handle it, ha.. we still are learning how to handle it! But, the more and more we encourage their good behavior and start all our kids, even ourselves in new activities maybe that will help? Then, they can see that they each have a new great out look on life. Volunteering if thats even possible would be a great help. I know Im nervous for my son to work with the animals and people because he does get mad out of nowhere and he cant always hold back...he starts next week ( hes never hurt an animal but still) I know its harder for them when families are not on the same page too. Again...like mine. But, like I tell my kids we are all different for a reason, some people can handle things better than others. They are oversensitive at times and I just try to build up their self esteem. Look into life coaches/ positive people who do this for a living, Im sure there are some out there. I am sure you have already been encouraging them :) Its hard! Keep us updated and hugs! [/QUOTE]
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